I started a new school this year. At the beginning of the year, I THOUGHT I'd made some good friends, which I was really excited about, since last year, I was sort of a loner (I spent most of my time studying in the library or alone etc.). Then, the basically turned on me and basically said "get lost". So now I don't really trust anyone, like, people don't see it, but I don't tell anyone really important things anymore, when I talk to someone it's mostly small talk. My problem: Am I going to be able to trust anyone after what these girls did to me? (BTW, I've had this problem before. A girl I used to like turned on me and told someone else things that I told her in confidence.)

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Aeliana_Tali

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" In order to be someone, you must first be yourself."

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In time you'll learn to trust people. I'm that way too. I can't really trust people in depth, because they usually just say one thing and mean another. And they always bring me down. But if you think your new friends are trustworthy, don't be afraid to trust them. It's okay to trust people, is what I'm saying...and good luck.

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"The funny thing is, nobody ever really knows how much anybody else is hurting. We could be standing next to someone who is completely broken, and we wouldn't even know."

Trust is an issue for me too, thats pretty much what a few friends of mine did to me aswell, 2/3 who i had known for 7 years mind you. Now they are my 'friends' again, I dont completely trust them, but I have met other people and after time i realiised they wouldnt do what the others did and i trust them with quite alot.
It will take time, but if you try and open up a little you might find someone who you can trust, just make an effort to get to know them, and dont think negatively. Try and think that they could just be a trutworthy friend to share all you secrets with =3

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Girls are bitches. I wouldn't show them it affected me.

I can also understand what position you are in. I am lonely, i thought it would change for me aswell once i began college. I have made a couple of good male friends, but not females. The problem is with me is that i find it hard to talk to males. I can understand how you must be feeling, i feel the same! I dont have many good friends even now.

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All you "Loners"need to snap out of it,No one Feeling sorry for you here,Because they have the same problem,They Dont care where your coming from,Because there coming from there too,And if you had trust Problems,Then you wouldnt Be posting it up on a forum,For people you dont know,So you do have trust there,It sounds like a problem NOT of trust but of being alone,I gave like 8 friend that i trust,we are a small circle,Imma Hip hop artist so i know ALL about not trusting people,How about instead of trying to trust people and them breaking it,Put it to use For "YOURSELF" ,Use it,Use your mind,Get into things that interest you,I'm not here to tell you off,or Hate on you,If you think that , then your not understanding,Dont blame the people that screwed you,its problerly there bad Luck anyway,Look for something you love,and Jump right into it,Ur gonna find Some one with the same Love for something that you have,So you can bond with speaical Things that the "others" didn't,Just buy some bricks and build a bridge and get over it,You point getting on your self,The most speacial kinda people in the world never had friends,But they made there Love for something, there best buddy,Ur Love and dream for some thing greater will never Leave you,Or lie to you,Or turn its back,Put your trust into that,and you will be laughing at these types of people in the very near Future,"I'M NOT HATING ,I'M JUST SPEAKING THE TRUTH"-Jay z