i dont know what 2 do anymore

MiszRed · 05-09-2008, 02:55 AM

well.. me and my mom dont have a regular relationship.. were always constantly having problems. She complains that i dont spend time with the family and that i treat my step dad differently like i dont want to be ar0und him..Im tired of being punished all the time. this has been since i was little. Right now im not allowed to use the phone or the computer because i had got in an arguement with my step dad. (the only reason im using it is because they are not home) I use to have a job and i cant work either. I feel like im in jail. I wish i could just be like other teens that could just ask if they can go outside and that will be it. But if i ask my mom to go out shell ask me a million questions and make me come home in a little bit. i need help im going crazy and i dont know what to do. i got in an arguement with my mom last week and she told me i could leave but when i leave she going to call the police. I asked her why shes always on top of me and she said i dont know whats being on top of me and now im going to see. So she told me to clean my room and i told her and if i dont what are you going to do about it. then she said youll see and when she saw i didnt she started slamming stuff and said shes going to throw my stuff away. So i just told her to take me to my grandmothers house. She took me and i missed 3 days of school. She was going to put me in a school around there but then i realized im going to miss my friends and my boyfriend that ive been with for a year. Also my grnadmothers house is very uncomfortable is a 1 room apt. with like 3 people.... well this is really long but i just need some advice or want to know if theres anybody going through the same things. i need more freedom and i feel like im just wasting my life

YeahWhatever · 05-09-2008, 07:46 AM

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Originally Posted by MiszRed

well.. me and my mom dont have a regular relationship.. were always constantly having problems. She complains that i dont spend time with the family and that i treat my step dad differently like i dont want to be ar0und him..Im tired of being punished all the time. this has been since i was little. Right now im not allowed to use the phone or the computer because i had got in an arguement with my step dad. (the only reason im using it is because they are not home) I use to have a job and i cant work either. I feel like im in jail. I wish i could just be like other teens that could just ask if they can go outside and that will be it. But if i ask my mom to go out shell ask me a million questions and make me come home in a little bit. i need help im going crazy and i dont know what to do. i got in an arguement with my mom last week and she told me i could leave but when i leave she going to call the police. I asked her why shes always on top of me and she said i dont know whats being on top of me and now im going to see. So she told me to clean my room and i told her and if i dont what are you going to do about it. then she said youll see and when she saw i didnt she started slamming stuff and said shes going to throw my stuff away. So i just told her to take me to my grandmothers house. She took me and i missed 3 days of school. She was going to put me in a school around there but then i realized im going to miss my friends and my boyfriend that ive been with for a year. Also my grnadmothers house is very uncomfortable is a 1 room apt. with like 3 people.... well this is really long but i just need some advice or want to know if theres anybody going through the same things. i need more freedom and i feel like im just wasting my life

It sounds to me like you're expecting too much freedom too soon, and like you're being disrespectful to your mom. Could you explain a little more about just what you say/do to your stepdad that upsets your mom, and what you say to her to land yourself in trouble?

Adramlech · 05-09-2008, 01:30 PM

Psht whatever Yeahwhatever, MiszRed, your mother sounds like a bitch as it stands, theres not much you can do except face consequences and fuck her over at any oppertunity, she says you can't go out or she'll ring the police? let her.
The police will soon say it's a waste of time and not come out.

Do what you want and proove you're not gonna accept her shit.

On an unrelated note, Yeahwhatever, this is exactly the sort of parent who shouldnt have kids.

xDimples · 05-09-2008, 10:21 PM

I'm with him ^^^
She totally sounds like a bitch!