I'm confused it seems like my bestfriend is being distant lately. We used to see each other at least once a week and now only at other peoples parties. I notice whenever shes upset or wants to talk she will phone me right away because i would be the only person that actually understands and takes the time to listen but than when its my turn she always appears to be busy even if i just asked to talk for 10mins she can't. Than today she asked me to go mothers day shopping with her on the weekend but i told her too late i already went today but i wouldn't mind going again with her just to hangout for a bit and the response i got was " sorry but i don't have time for that cya at the party" after i had asked if she wanted to go together since i don't know the hostess all that well. anyways i don't know what i should do about her now i feel taken for granted. should i do the same to her next time she needs something from me?

hello everyone im knew im just saying hello

Well that sounds like a tough situation.
Seems like you 2 are drifting far apart.
And it doesn't seem like she even cares.
You should sit her down and talk to her about it and let her know how she's making you feel.

It is kinda tough when i try to mention somethings wrong in the most calm possible way she completely loses her cool than i feel like i'm arguing with a 4year old because i always come across as the "dramatic one" even though i'm speaking common sense. She even invited me to her graduation dinner this year and paid for my ticket but i honestly don't feel like going anymore since i have a feeling that i'll be following her around all night although i'd like to go for her and have fun since she came to mine but it doesn't seem like that this time around. She even made limo plans and i'm not a part of it so i don't know how i will be getting there yet for my grad i included her in all of my plans.