Haven't been on in a while.

freckles. · 05-11-2008, 09:02 PM

My step-dad and my mother are getting divorced. My step-dad has basically been my real dad to me, since he took care of me since I was four years old when him and my mom got together. They filed for divorce on my birthday (Leap year), and he has been steadily growing more distant, and doing weird stuff.

We have a guest house. He lives in that now, but takes advantage of him moving out of the house. When he leaves, he locks his doors, and take the phone off the hook and unplugs the network adapter thing. (that's why we had no internet, and couldn't do anything because he locked his doors) One time we had no phone for a week, just because he went to a beach house or something.

My friend came over. It was my mom, me and her at the house. My mom left for a minute, and my step-dad took advantage of that and came up to the house. Me and her were riding on the golf cart and got off to go back inside when he rounds the corner, and tried to hit my friend with the four-wheeler he was riding. She jumped out of the way and he just started laughing like it was the funniest thing. He jumped off the four-wheeler and got into my friend's face saying she'd better leave or he'll make her, and he was going to call them cops because it was illegal (idk how) for her to be here? He just went on and on, till we ran inside. We called my mom and locked all the doors then ran into my room and locked that door. We could hear him like ramming himself against the doors trying to get in. As soon as he heard my mom drive back up, he ran back to the guest house. We thought he was on drugs or gone crazy. (He's the most non-violent person you'd ever meet) Well, after that, my friend and I got into the car with my mom, just talking to her because she was so upset. My friend was like "Hey... I think he's coming over here" and we got back into the car and locked the door, and as we drove down the driveway he was beating on the door and trying to hang onto the car.

He's also been cheating on my mom for the past year, and for half the marriage, beating her as well. Me and my brother just found this out.

YeahWhatever · 05-12-2008, 04:20 AM

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Originally Posted by freckles.

My step-dad and my mother are getting divorced. My step-dad has basically been my real dad to me, since he took care of me since I was four years old when him and my mom got together. They filed for divorce on my birthday (Leap year), and he has been steadily growing more distant, and doing weird stuff.

We have a guest house. He lives in that now, but takes advantage of him moving out of the house. When he leaves, he locks his doors, and take the phone off the hook and unplugs the network adapter thing. (that's why we had no internet, and couldn't do anything because he locked his doors) One time we had no phone for a week, just because he went to a beach house or something.

My friend came over. It was my mom, me and her at the house. My mom left for a minute, and my step-dad took advantage of that and came up to the house. Me and her were riding on the golf cart and got off to go back inside when he rounds the corner, and tried to hit my friend with the four-wheeler he was riding. She jumped out of the way and he just started laughing like it was the funniest thing. He jumped off the four-wheeler and got into my friend's face saying she'd better leave or he'll make her, and he was going to call them cops because it was illegal (idk how) for her to be here? He just went on and on, till we ran inside. We called my mom and locked all the doors then ran into my room and locked that door. We could hear him like ramming himself against the doors trying to get in. As soon as he heard my mom drive back up, he ran back to the guest house. We thought he was on drugs or gone crazy. (He's the most non-violent person you'd ever meet) Well, after that, my friend and I got into the car with my mom, just talking to her because she was so upset. My friend was like "Hey... I think he's coming over here" and we got back into the car and locked the door, and as we drove down the driveway he was beating on the door and trying to hang onto the car.

He's also been cheating on my mom for the past year, and for half the marriage, beating her as well. Me and my brother just found this out.

So let me get this straight...

First you said that he was "the most non-violent person you'd ever meet", then that he's been beating your mom. This guy sounds like he's either on something, or he has a serious mental illness. At first I was thinking that this sounded EXACTLY like what my friend went through a couple months ago, and I was about to tell you that that's just divorce. But if you guys really feel like you're in danger, you need to get out of there. If he threatens you again, call the police. Anyone who would attempt to hurt you like that isn't worth protecting.

xDimples · 05-12-2008, 04:27 AM

Wow that all sounds crazy.
I don't know if I would be sad because they're getting a divorce..
Or happy he's out because of the way he's acting now.

Vanack · 05-13-2008, 04:06 AM

I'm sorry. If I had a mom left, I'd know what you meant.

I've had a separating family for years now. My mom was murders by a rapist, then that rapist shot me twice.

Then recently, I've lost my brothers.

The world can be rough, but the strong stay together. If you need to talk, or anything, add me on MSN or email me.

skydragonNR@hotmail.com