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Originally Posted by baileyboo  First of all, why in the world did you feel the need to have and abortion? I think that everyone should have a chance in life, no matter the circumstances.
You should definately tell your mom. You don't want her to find out from someone other than you. You would be in even more trouble than you will be. He's a smart guy to break up with you if you can't tell your own mother that you're dating him!
Back to the abortion. There are a trillion people out there who are suffering because they can't have children, and some people decide to kill theirs. That's rediculous. I know that it's too late now, but still, think about it. |
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Originally Posted by onyxeyes There's not even a trillion people alive. Also, don't judge her. Not everyone believes the same way you do, you also don't know the circumstances surrounding her decision. |
I know you all might think that my boyfriend and I were selfish for not keepin the child, but please bare in mind that we made the decision thinking about all the consequences, and yes maybe the abortion was not the best decision in the world, but i do believe that decision suited me. I did not want my child to be adopted because i don't want them to think that their parents never wanted them, because lets face it that is the mentality of some adopted children, If i were financially secure then of course i would of kept the child, as me and my boyfriend were in college and our parents were in time consuming professions, the baby would not of got the best things it could of had, i chose not to have it as i want to have an education and be able to give my children the best things
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Originally Posted by Caydens Mummy hey..... im sorry i dont agree with abortions..... i was pregnant at 16 and i also gave birth at 16 i have only recently turned 17 and i have a gorgeous 2 month old son..... i never cared what my parents thought about me having a baby, because i knew that i would grow to love the child i held inside me for 9 months. I am sorry but i think that you should of thought about your options first...... i hope you make a better decision next time |
TBH i only really asked for advice about me and my mum, i kno some of you are againt abortions, but you there are certain circumstances that a child should not be brought up in. Think if a woman were to be raped and found out she was pregnant...do you really think she should keep a child that was not conceived out of love, she would have to look at that child everyday and look rememba how that child was brought into the world, also she would think how she would break the news to her child of who their father is, so please don't think that there is no excuse to not keep a baby.
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Originally Posted by T.N.T WELL how close are you and your ma? and does she know this whole story of you and your fwend? girl all i can say is that talkin bout stuff lyk that wid my ma is difficult for me i wnt to but i dont know how she will react wen she hears what i have to say or tell her coz there sumthings she cant handle.. |
I'm not particularly close with my mum, i can talk to her about certain things, but in relationship situations i find it difficult, as she isn't easy going with that type of thing...problem is she sees me as her baby (i'm the youngest)
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