hey, i've only just introduced myself a few minutes ago...
im a guy, and straight btw.

at the moment I only really have about 7 good friends (by that i mean i would invite them over for the night), + some others im working on to try and get to know better.

on msn recently i've started talking to a friend(guy) from an old school who i used to be pretty tight with. Thing is, i hadnt spoken to him in 4 years. On msn our convo's have been great, it would seem as though we've both developed similar interests independent of eachother, and our msn conversations have been active for well over 45 minutes before they end.

at one point in a conversation i said something like: "yeah man i need to get you over to my place some time," taken out of context i know, but we'd basically been talking about fun activities we both have been getting up to lately. His response was "lol"..... hmmm. even though what i said wasnt a question, that was not the answer i was hoping for. Do you think this means hes not interested in me or has he simply underlooked the question?

the other thing im worried about is that im the only one starting the msn convo's. i know the feeling of being bugged on msn, so ive only been speaking to him about 4 x per week (i go on every night). each time the conversation has flowed great. does this also mean he doesnt give a crap about me or am i overanalyzing this?

if anyone has been in a similar situation before how did it go?
im a sensitive guy and i know you're probably thinking this is a weird thing to talk about, but idk, im just looking forward to catching up with him.
if you want me to explain anything about this any further feel free to ask.
thanks heaps in
advance(AUS)

Well. Maybe he got weirded out that you asked him to hang out at your house? One of my guy friends would occasionally invite me to his home to hang out, and I feel weird about it a little bit.

As for the msn convos... maybe he's just a lazy bum? Me. I just sign on msn and wait for people to send me an im.. then ill talk to them. Maybe he's the same way.

thats the thing, i didnt really ask him over. I hinted at it, and waited to see his response. we were talking about something, a convo which involved a million "lol's" and "this other time." etc.

- i dont think hes lazy. hes pretty smart, and was pretty energetic when i knew him.

you're probably right as far as talking on msn. as soon as i say something to him the conversation starts.
hmmm...

Yeah, I definately think you're overanalysing it. If you want to meet up with him, just ask him. Your suggestion of meeting up was a little vague so it recieved a vague response. Maybe don't ask him to come round to your house though, that could be a bit strange if you haven't seen him in four years.

yeah i think your overanalysing
cus you havent hanged with him in a while, try like going to the moives instead of you house
eh my .02$

I thought id let everyone know what happened.
After a while i invited him over, to go out and hang with some friends of mine. He was bringing a friend of his own and it was all good, -or so i thought.
I end up waiting 3 hours for him to arrive. not a single phonecall/text received.
eventually i was given a "sorry" text, saying that he had to play sport for longer than expected.
Because i waited, i lost the opportunity to go hang with my friends, and was left by myself the whole day. The annoying thing is, its the weekend after the end of exams, everyone is out having fun, and i havent done anything...