Heres what going on. My friends boyfriend was hitting on me behind her back, At first I thought he was joking around, but I realized he wasnt joking around. So I told my friend all the stuff he was doing/saying to me. She got mad and saying stuff like "you just dont like him," "you want us to break up so bad dont you," and "if you want him just say it dont lie on him" and so me and her got into a argument because she was saying I wanted him for myself. She asked him herself (that was a stupid move because of course he was going to deny it) and he lied and said that I was flirting with him and all types of other bs. I'm soo mad and upset!!! I couldnt even concentrate at school!!!! What would you do if you were in my situation?

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Your friend should trust you more then her boyfriend. You were just looking out for her, it isn't right for her to blame you for what he did. In my point of view that doesn't sound like a good friend. Although, I know many females who would chose their boyfriends word over any of their friends. If he 'hit on you' he'll probably do it again or to some other female. I would just let it blow over until she realizes that he's not a faithful boyfriend. She'll get hurt in the end, sadly, but if she won't listen there isn't much you can do.

Yeah, the best thing to do is to let her realize on her own. She's stupid to even believe that you were hitting on him, although you were the first to tell her about it and she had to confront him.

She's telling you what she wants to hear, she's in denial and doesn't want to believe herself that her boyfriend did this so by accusing you, it gives her an excuse for her boyfriend so she can try as much as poss to believe him.

She should believe you really but you should also tell her that you told her the rtruth and if she doesn't want to believe you then that's upto her ,...you were after all only being a good freind.

She'll realise in the long run when he does it with some other girl that you were right....just don't keep protesting to her about it, you said it once...so keep it like that.

Girls get jealous easy..I've had that before just make sure you aren't flirty at all and tell her she should trust you and her bf more than that

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Not necessarily true, unfortunately we no nothing of their relationship, a relationship's foundation is trust, this is why relationships and love can make a person extremely vulnerable, because if they commit that trust to the wrong person, they will eventually get hurt one way or the other.

She seems in denial, but you as a friend did what you were suppose to. She is a fool in love, happens to many of us, she eventually will get hurt by this man, you as a friend should try remaining by her side. Try once again to make things normal, just let her know once again you do not wish to fight and you did what you felt was right, as well as notifying her there are NO feelings which exist between you two, you did it because you care about her.

Don't give up just yet, but her response will judge on what exactly your next move should be. Update us on the progress.