ok i have this friend and we were soo close i took her on 2 vactions.. out of state.. she was alway over at each others house... then al of a sudden she droppede me and another friend to hang out with "cooler" people .. here reasontly shes said srry and came over ..but when she came over see lied and left early to go hang out with these other friends
im upset with her.. but im a good person who will always be there for her..


im soo tired of being upset over her.. i want so badly to get over it and move on

but every time i see her with her friends i want to cry so bad im crying right now.. i don't want to be so upset over her but i amm

can u guys&girls help me get over it??

She doesnt sound like someone you want in your life. I know its not really what you want to hear, but its true. Anyone who dumps you for other friends is not someone you want to be relying on.

Losing a friend is hard. I'm afraid there's nothing magical someone on the board can say to you to make you feel better. You need to have a good cry, talk to someone about how you're feeling, and do something that'll cheer you up (even going out to eat or doing something fun with other friends can help tons).
Try to avoid being around her for a while. And if you have to be around her, focus on something else, dont look at her and her "cool" friends. It will take time, but eventually you'll think about her less and less, and eventually rarely if at all.

I hope you feel better soon and I helped a little bit!

My friend, you need to move on to the best of your ability, you CAN do it, you just need to believe in yourself. The best key is avoidance, but you need to be open. If she asks you why you are avoiding her if she ever catches on, tell her the truth, tell her she is hurting you, friends shouldn't hurt one another.

However, now I will go against my initial response and give you a second option: talk to her about it. Friends need to be open with one another, be mature about it and depending on her reaction, I can try helping you furthermore.

It really depends on her response my friend, if she is an ass about it, it is time to move on, sometimes we need to do the hardest things imaginable to protect ourselves individually more than anything.

But, as a friend, you should let her know how you feel, that is what friends do, however these days my philosophy on friendship seems illogical: I believe in sincere loyalty, honesty, and chivalry, to be there for your friend no matter what, many are unable to do this. If she disregards your feelings and is thick headed, you need to ask yourself: Is she really a friend?

A friend like that isn't a friend at all, just a person who needed you for a short amount of time.

Don't cling on to what used to be.

Make new friends, real ones.

*Coughs*
Intelligence, etc.

Told ya.

wow, i feel the same way right now!! and the only thing that help is giving my attetion to other things, you know, is hard for me sometimes becouse i love to help peaple, is one of my passions, but almost always this peaple i help is not by my side, and right now one of my ''friends'' she start forgetting about me, no calls, when we see each other in school she might talk to me 2 minutes, sometimes she sais heyyy, wait 5 minutes ill be back... yeahhhhhhhhhhhhh xD she just forget she was talking to me!... and it hurts, but you know what helps me??? KNOWING THAT I STILL CAN FORGIVE AND MOVE ON, HOW STRONG I MIGHT BE FOR THE LOVE OF THE PEAPLE WHO IS ARROUND ME... is very hard to find a real friend... and while you search you might get hurt, but hope is my friend. yeah yeah life sucks, but is not becouse of the peaple, is becouse your own attitude facing the giants of your life.

if she dont want to be with you, dont worry, be thankful becouse early you notice that she is not a real friend. move on my friend, embrace hope!

Unfortunately, this happens to everyone at one stage. Maybe its opened your eyes a bit to just how people can change and perhaps she weren't whiter than white after all. Focus on the positive things in your life and remember to spend time with your other friends, especially those that have stuck by you through thick and thin. Don't let one person get you down, your better than that.

Good luck

in life we will have to say that a lot in the future