Should i t ell her or not?

simply_me · 06-02-2008, 03:08 AM

i really need help as ive discovered my dads been texting some random woman, i mean he talks to others online too, but on his phone he has photos of this womans breasts, my mum is suspicious and theyve just got out of a rough patch, they were shouting alot and i hated it, i don't want them to divorcce i love them both but what my dads doing is making me feel sick he says to this woman he'l send pictures and thats not right if your married with kids. Please someone help me because im in the middle of really important exams and this isnt helping.

Nicole91 · 06-02-2008, 03:18 AM

their relationship is false well at least from one side it is....it might not be pretty be the right thing to do would be to confront your dad about it, ad ask him to tell your mum, give him a chance to tell her: or you will...

The Wolf · 06-02-2008, 08:49 AM

I agree with Nicole. I would definitely talk to your father about it. Don't accuse him of anything though. Just calmly ask him about it. There might be more to this situation that you don't know about.

Yourfavoritediscoball · 06-02-2008, 03:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicole91

their relationship is false well at least from one side it is....it might not be pretty be the right thing to do would be to confront your dad about it, ad ask him to tell your mum, give him a chance to tell her: or you will...

I totally agree. You gotta let him know you know, and that it's not okay with you. And then tell him he has to tell her. You shouldnt be the one to have to do it.

Striker · 06-02-2008, 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicole91

their relationship is false well at least from one side it is....it might not be pretty be the right thing to do would be to confront your dad about it, ad ask him to tell your mum, give him a chance to tell her: or you will...

Yes a ultimatum either he does it or you will however i wont jump to this because it aint going to end well unfortuently.

Maby you could just tell your dad to stop. As perfectic as that sounds for the least amont of damage thats all you can do. However if he is persistent and lies to you give him the ultimatum then.

remote91 · 06-03-2008, 02:45 AM

Tell your father that you know and that he should either stop what he is doing or you tell your mother about this. Either way, it isnt right for someone in a relationship to do that behind their partners back.

NeoSky · 06-03-2008, 03:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Nicole91

their relationship is false well at least from one side it is....it might not be pretty be the right thing to do would be to confront your dad about it, ad ask him to tell your mum, give him a chance to tell her: or you will...

agree with you 100%!
sometimes telling the truth make some big changes in our lifes, maybe changes that hurt deep inside... but never forget... Truth Shall Set You Free