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ok, so recently i've noticed something wrong with one of my best friends family and they way they've been acting towards me. everything used to be fine and they treated me like i was their other daughter. but then all of the sudden, i've got the feeling that they hate me.
supposedly they don't trust me, and i'm a "bad influence" on her. i dont drink, i don't do anything bad and i actually thought i was a pretty good influence. i try to have conversations, but every time i do, i get turned away as if they don't want to have a conversation. it's weird to me, because we've been friends for so long and i would think that if they didn't trust me or if they thought i was a bad influence they wouldnt necessarily want me to hang out with her anymore. i can't act like theres nothing wrong, maybe i shouldnt go over there anymore. but then that doesn't solve anything.
i was also told that i act like im always right. i don't mean for it to come off as ignorance or being a bitch. im not like that in any way and im not about being a snot and making everyone feel that they're at a lower level than i am. but i do also know that everyone likes to be right, even if their opinion is utterly ridiculous, nobody likes being shot down and being told "no your not right." everyone likes being right one time or another. so i dont think that i should be rediculed by the fact that i like being right, because everyone does.
i've lost a lot of my friends this past year going into high school and i cant afford to lose any more. i dont think im losing her as a friend, i think im losing her parents respect for me as a person and i dont want that. i don't know what i should do.
Don't let her best friends parents attitude effect the friendship with your friend, I couldn't say why they are acting like they are but if you've tried to make amends and make a conversation with them and it ain't happening, you've done your best and you should leave it there.
You seem like a nice person and I don't have any idea what the parent's problem could be with you. Maybe you should just ask them about it the next time you go round when your friend leaves the room or just ask your friend about it.
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I think that the best thing to do is ask your friend why her parents are acting this way towards you. Explain to her that you think that you have been a good influence on her and that you do not understand her parents opinion of you. If she tells you why, talk to her parents about it. Explain the same thing to them. If they still have issues then I don't really know what to do about it. If you are telling the truth then you sound like a nice person, and their reasons for disliking you are unjustified.
P.S. I get people mad at me for acting like I'm right all the time too. I think we all do it. Lol.
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