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About a year ago my best friend really liked this guy, and the guy knew about it. I hope you know what i mean when i say hes a 'manwhore'. So he kinda led her on towards the end of last year, and on the last day of school before summer break, which was also her birthday. He kissed her, and it was her first proper kiss. They also did other 'stuff' aswell. That night she was talking to him on msn, and he said that he didnt want a relationship now, but when we go back to school ( in september ) they could give it a try. So because she was in love with him, she believed him. But when we went back to school, they had all different classes and never saw eachother. Eventhough they saw eachother at lunch, he ignored her complettly. This broke her heart, and he is still ignoring her and shes still in love with him and cant see how much of a prick he is.
I know im her bestfriend, and i should be supportive and therefor her. But its really starting to annoy me. Its been about a year so she should have gotten over him by now!! i know its harsh for me to judge, because iv never liked a guy as much as she likes him.
So her birthday is coming up, and i dont want what happened last year to affect her this year.
Any advice i can give her?? anything i can do for her?? Or if you have any comments at al id like to know =D
What I've realised from personal experience is, that these things do take time and you should be there for her, you know, let her know you're there to help and that she has people that care for her. Also, try to keep her mind off the whole situation-having fun, etc.
Hope I help.
I can understand you being annoyed, he is a man whore, she is probably not in love, but for now on you need to be straight forward with her and have her realize who he really is and pursuing anything with him would be pointless. Seriously, it has been over a year.
No matter what you do, SHE will judge this year's birthday and how it panels out, but be there for her. Try doing something that keeps her mind occupied. Will you both be in school on her birthday?
well no, i go on holiday on her birthday =[
but we're celebrating it on the last day of school ( friday )
then i go on holiday on the monday after ( her birthday )
aaww i feel so bad for her. u just need 2 make her realise that if hes doing this to her even though theyre not going out- imagine wt he'd b like if they were going out!!? just give her time.
by the way shes very lucky to have a best friend who is this concerned for her!
Go out with her- take her out and have fun. Try meeting new boys- show her there are better ones out there than the one she likes.
And be there when she needs you when she gets hurt- give her a shoulder to cry on.
There isn't really much you can do to get her to forget about the guy- if you tried, she could end up not liking you, you just have to let her learn from her own mistakes.
x
I'm sorry that your friend had to go through with that. Some guys (and girls) can be such jerks! I'm also sorry that you had to go through what you went through with her. I understand how frusterating it can be to witness your friends' "love life". My best friend went through almost exactly what your friend went though. My friend's ex (thank god she finally ended it with him for good) cheating on her multiple times, hit on me a couple of times, and was just NOT a good boyfriend. But she was blind to see that. She didn't care if he cheated on her (well I'm sure she DID care) just as long as someone was with her. They were together for almost 2 years and she loved him so much. Now that she isn't dating him everything is so much better. Her self esteem was so low with him, now she really values herself. I just hope that your friend recovers and soon everything will be fine. Just try talking to her and tell her that your there for her!!
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