i am so fuckin miserable right now

i have been best friends with this girl for a while now, i used to drive her around cause her family wasn't ever really around, and i didn't really mind cause i kinda felt bad, and she is a good person...a little selfish at times but a good person and we got really close, to the point where ppl would refer to us as just one person.

after graduation her hours at work got changed to full time and it was harder to spend time with her, and i leave at the end of the week so i have been trying to spend time with my family and the only 2 other friends i have, and it so all of a sudden she started saying that we weren't close anymore, and that i barely talk to her.

basicly saying because i didn't see her for 6 days that ALLLLLL of a sudden were not close anymore and that our friendship is dissolving, and all this other stuff, making me feel like all i did for and being there for you was good while it lasted but since i didn't see you for the first week of our summer, i never cared, and that i won't miss her when i go to school.


idk what to do im just so upset right now and ignoring her calls and stuff


then she has the nads to say that SHE isn't mad and that I should call her when i don't think SHE is mad anymore.

she should be the one asking me if I'm mad?! right?! i mean i don't know


i didn't do anything to her....this seriously brakes my heart.

You said it yourself, she is being selfish. Pick up her calls, talk to her and let her know how much it pisses you off. She seems to be EXTREMELY CLINGY, which could be unhealthy. Tell her everything you wrote in your post, how you were there for her and whatnot, it isn't like you don't want to see her, it is because you CAN'T. And even if you did want some space, that'd be normal too.

I don't think you did anything wrong either but don't ignore her calls. That hurts a lot to know someone is ignoring you.

Sometimes it is for the best.

i did tell her that but just said the same stuff, and then threw the "your blaming this all on me thing" out at me

your not blaming her if its the truth

If she is seriously doing this to you, you should really consider on how close you get to her again. A real friend wouldn't put you through such childish bullshit, that is nonsense. Tell her to give you a call when she is ready to really talk about the situation.

Well, you can't be aggressive with her, that's something to do with a guy. If you are bothered by this, then speak to you in a calm manner, tell her about *your* feelings. Don't get offended or point fingers, or recall past events. STAY on topic, do not let it devolve into insults and going off the topic of conversation.

Give it time, let wounds heal, try it. If it doesn't work, then perhaps it's time to move on, but you can't rush such a sensitive thing as a person's emotions. It's selfish to think that we're the only one being affected.

it's up to U....

if u want her to be UR best friend again..... U can talk to her....

If U don't want.... U can find another friend....

U must know... if U open UR eyes.... U can find a person that want to be UR best friend......



but I know...
it's hard to forgot I nice friend.....