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ok, so I live with my uncle right now, for about 4 months now, its ok, but he yells alot, and I get blamed for everything, and I have like 2 friends their, I think I want to come back to my old school, but I would have to live with my grandpa who is rarely home, and i would have to walk about 4 miles to school, and i dont want to hurt my uncles feelings, because he took me in like I was his own,
please help me!!!
Well, have you sat down and spoken to him? You're being vague when you're saying he blames you for everything. Have you thought about what you do? Have you been responsible, have you done what he asks of you?
It'd be good to look at yourself, and see what you can do before making any decisions.
Yeah, communication is key when you're living with someone. You just need to make sure that when you talk to him, that you make sure you are completely calm and try to put your words in a non-accusatory tone, because that really doesn't help with already temperamental people. Just talk to hi, i mean he should understand that living with someone new is going to take some adjusting and consideration of each other on both of your parts.
but thats not the only reason i want to move, its mostly about the school thing, because i was popular at my old school, and I had alot of friends ,but here i have like none, im a loser here
Becoming accustomed to a new environment is rather stressful and trying. Have you truly given an attempt in meeting new people? You felt comfortable in a familiar setting, this being your old school. When school ends, you'll be thrown out into a world that is completely unfamiliar.
This of course is up to you, whether you want to hold it out and give it a try, or go back.
Maybe if your Uncle is a guy to speak to, and he cares about you, that you should speak to him about it.
That's a common matter, seeing as he's older than you, and does have seniority. However you should give it a shot anyway, since this is a discussion about your living arrangement. What will he say, "Oh, I'm right about you staying here!" Just give your thoughts, talk it out, and take time to consider it yourself.
well your uncle is he a new parent?
because if he is then you haave to understand that it must be hard for him to suddenly take on a teenager
maybe, you could find something that you both like doing and have fun/ take some streesses away?x
and if you were popular before, then you know how to make friends, sso just be friendly to everyone at school and you alredii have some friends there and you can keep in touch with your other friends cant you?x
we can be friends for starters
i say stick with it for a while because your uncle obviously loves you and dw about the shouting it doesnt mean anything - wat matters is what people say when they're in a happy moodd
hope ive been some help x
if you need any more just ask
It sorta sounds like your uncle is having a lot of stress. Maybe you could ask him how he thinks things are working out having you there? If he is buying you clothes and stuff, he obviously cares about you.
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