Ok so here's whats going on in my life right now, and i'm really confused on what to do. I have two groups of friends. The first group is of a bunch of crazy, outgoing, party people who are really fun. The other group: gamers (ps3, xbox 360, pc). Then there's my "best" friend.

One of my good friends in the first group started doing drugs. He tried weed with me and now he's going crazy about it. I quit everything I did, but since then he has done pot, shrooms, and most recently acid. All he talks about is drugs and hippie crap. And he's even infected another one of my friends with it. then those two are getting to everyone else in the group. There's a girl in the group who i like and she hasn't fallen for it yet (which is good), and shes my only connection to that group right now, but recently she found out that i like her and has pretty much ignored me (we're getting better now). So now that group is gone.

The second group is like the opposite, but they can get really annoying because they get obsessed with games. and now they're trying to make me spend all of money on games/game systems. i told them no because i dont really want them that much, and now they're mad at me. WTF. its so stupid (i've made up with one of them).

My "best" friend. me and him have been hanging out like everyday for almost 2 years. we know everything about each other. he's the one that got me into weed/cigs (before i quit). i got a job 2 months ago and he says that he's been lonely without me so as a rebound he's been hanging out with THE BIGGEST DRUGGIE IN SCHOOL!!! literaly everyday. when i finaly got a chance to go over his house, he ditched me two hours in to go hang out with the druggie. all he has to say is "dude dont give me a guilt-trip". i havent seen or heard from him in 3 weeks.

so now except from that girl, one of the gaming friends, and like 3 other people, i have like noone. and i had like 20 people.

does anyone have any suggestions???

Personally I think you should find yourself some new friends. Both groups seem to be extreme cases, and won't do you any good. Just move on.

I agree, they don't sound like the kind of friends i'd want to be with.

xx

i guess, its just that ive been with most of them since i was 6

I'm lonely, too, so... um, hi :wave: :]

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Sometimes, even if you have known people for a long time, it's best to move on. People do change (especially at our age) for the better or the worse.
It's good you haven't succumbed to peer pressure though. That's always a hard thing to do.

Go hang out with some new people. You'll be surprised how good it will feel when you are away from those "extreme" groups.

xx

I think you must see yourself, is 'your best freind' important for you or not. If 'he' just bring you to the bad world, you must find another friend.

I think, if you see around you, there are many people who want to be your friend.

If you want, I am lonely now. I want to find 'friend-email'. Do you want to be my friend...?

just ask U....

he3x

Not the idea group of friends i would like to be in..

Either try and get them to quit the bad stuff, tell there parents and tell them not to say

that you told em about it.. could be risky.. or otherwise just find yourself

some new friends

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alright...now how do i delete this thread?