Having BF/GF back at house when parents are in

TGH · 07-01-2008, 05:31 AM

Okay, I'm 15 and live in the UK.
Many of my friends have their GFs back at their houses after school or at weekends and stuff, and their parents are fine with it.
I've never done this and was just wondering how, if people on here have done this when they were my age or younger, they started to do this?
Did they ask their parents or just have the person back without asking or that?

Common · 07-01-2008, 11:41 AM

you will def. wanna ask.
it's disrespectful. i'm sure its not that big of a problem.
if it is, just flow with them. find out why.
talk to them about it. esp. at your age.

WSS?? · 07-01-2008, 04:16 PM

umm... well yea u just ask if u can bring them over...

Monkee-J · 07-01-2008, 05:47 PM

You should ask for sure. See how they feel. You wouldn't want them to overreact when she's already there.

or... You could always lie and say she's just a friend... but that wouldn't be very good advice.

Diane · 07-02-2008, 09:59 AM

when i first started having boyfriends over, i asked obviously.
but now my boyfriend just comes over whenever sometimes it even surprises me but my rents are chill with it.

rock_star44 · 07-02-2008, 10:15 PM

just ask at first, have her meet your parents maybe have your gf over for dinner with your family and whatnot.

Unfinished-Finale · 07-03-2008, 08:32 AM

Defo ask.
Maybe introduce her properly first tho, then hopefully your parents will like her and be happy to see her in their house! Lol

Edge · 07-06-2008, 06:21 AM

It's always good to be honest at first, and just introduce them, you know nothing real in depth. Your parent's will always ask questions later, of course they're curious. That's up to you if you want to share with them or not.

It's also kind of smart to keep them around you at first, somewhere near your parents. Things get more loose from there, depending on how your parents are anyways.

Kelly · 07-19-2008, 10:12 AM

my dad was always funny about my bf comin round but hes gettin better about it now. My bf's parants like me more than they like him and im always welcome but his mum just wants to talk bout stuff with me and annoys my bf like mad! then when we go upstairs she always makes a little joke or sommat or his dad will say sommat5 funny about too much noise - nightmare!

Daddys-Lil-Nightmare9 · 07-21-2008, 07:44 PM

Well when i started going out with my bf , i told my mum i had started seeing someone i liked and would love her to meet him. They got on really well, and now there like family...

x

micromark · 07-21-2008, 09:42 PM

seems like people have sumed it up pretty well !

I agree ask first ! Kinda warm them to the situation !

armyforthebroken · 07-22-2008, 04:51 AM

You should ask your parents first, otherwise they might just be taken from surprise that you brought home a boy or girl to their home. It's polite if you ask.

SuperLemons · 07-23-2008, 03:07 AM

I'm almost 15 and I have my boyfriend over a lot. You should definitely ask first, your parents will appreciate it and it'll show responsibility.

iluvmcr123 · 07-26-2008, 05:03 PM

neither of our parents knew we were going out, but my bf still had me round loads nd his parents didnt care cuz they were never in, and jus said hi and asked if i wanted a drink or sumfin wen thy got bak if i was still ther... i dnt fink he ever told them i was comin round.

ryan22 · 07-30-2008, 02:10 AM

I just wait till they leave then have someone over.