I can't believe it

Sara · 04-12-2007, 08:44 PM

ok so...
I have this friend ..let's say her name is M ... so where like best friends for a long long time...
we had promesses and secrets we shared and stuff. but she wasn't in my school .
so one day her friend in school was gonna leave the country . So M went to visit her the day before she left.. and there she met her neighbor named (let's call her Y) so M got Y's email and she added her when she came back home..
the second day M camed to my house and gaved me Y's email to add her..
so today Y kept telling me on msn : hi ... and sending me the kisss wink like forever nonstop .. so i was sooo angry I told her : Can u pls fuck off 1 sec ?
so she called M and told her what I said..
M called me and told me that she has got a programme and she can see every conv in the hole world..i told her : yeah right.. and stuff i don't believe..
and then I closed the phone in the time that she was still inventing stuff ..
she callled me back and said : ok I admitt it .. Y called me and she said that u told her : Fuck off u bitch.. M hates you and so do every body and I called her slut and weirdo and stuff ( Y was inventing and lieing )
so m didn't believe me and she was on Y's side.
so she sended me a 4 virus and she calld me stuff ( M ) ...
How can I make her believe that Y is lying ..after 4 years of friend ship she goes on the side of a girl that she barely know ?

ice_princess · 04-14-2007, 12:41 AM

HEY ....
maybe M is jus insecure ... or shes jus not worth ur time ...
she shudnt be takin Ys side ... but ... sumtimes frens go offtrack ...
and we jus need to remind em who their real frens are ....
i bet Y doesnt care abt M half as much as u do ...
she jus needs to noe dat ....

Dice Kid · 04-14-2007, 01:03 AM

tell M that if she cant trust you, that your friendship is over.

FutureNavyMan08 · 04-14-2007, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by mellow

tell M that if she cant trust you, that your friendship is over.

I'm gonna have to agree with that. Not trusting a freind you've had for 4 years over one you've just met? Ridiculous. I encourage ya'll to try and work it out though, without ending your freindship.

Sara · 04-14-2007, 06:20 PM

Hey thanks alot..
But now I need ur help with that:
Yesterday she called me on my cellphone while i was having a bath.
I asked my housemaid to answer.Well M told her that she just wanted to ask me why did I sent her back 7 virus (wich i didn't even tryed to). So i called her back and told her that.. But It was too late : Y called M and told her that I just send 7 virus to her(Y). And M could'nt believe me..
After about 2 hours Melissa(M)'s mom called(M told her every single secret we had between ech others.Even the times when we told older people on the msn that we where like 19 and stuff..) She started (her mom) telling me that she tought I was a responsible and good girl. (M told her everything we did together but she told her that i only did it but she didnt)
After that like in an hour i tried to call her cellphone but she never answered and the same thing on her homephone...
what should I do ...
I can't believe it ( saying : pls fuck off ) will destroy our hole friendship????

butterfsofie · 04-14-2007, 06:45 PM

i dont know if she s worth u trying.
i think the whole story shows she is not.
u should let her alone for a while, so as to realize that shes loosing u.
maybe she will stop doing all those things
anyway i cant understand why shes baheving that way, since u were best friends for 4 years, but i dont think that this girl is worth ur time
just let her go and try to find other friends.
se will only cause more problems to u.

sunfire1100 · 04-14-2007, 07:48 PM

Well, if you've tried and tried, there is only so much you can do. Concentrate on your other friends, and not just on Mellisa. Maybe she will see that you were actually sincere, and didn't send those viruses? And you could maybe mention something about Y sending you some, if I read anything right.