My brother has ADHD and he can be very very aggressive at times..punching my dad..and my little sister and stuff. And it's so hard to cope with, I have my fair share of problems myself...I have depression because of this, I've had it for about 6 years...

I've had to stay in psychiatric units because of him...I got out of my depression about a year ago because he was taken away and put into a childrens home to give my family and me some respite. However, when he was there he attempted to take his own life and my mum decided to bring him home.

Since he has been home things have been going downhill terribly, his aggression is a lot worse because he has been in the company of other aggressive teenagers. His abuse overall has just got worse (physical and mental abuse) and I'm at the END of my tether.

I've started self-harming again and I'm so depressed...somedays I just don't want to wake up...

To make things worse we are preparing to move 150 miles away from my home town..leaving my friends behind. And I'm worried because when we move I won't have anyone there for me.

I'm so desperate for some help..please

Well, I have a Little sister who has AD/HD and has some Brith defects with her Speech.. She is also very aggressive, and she is a loud mouth. If she doesnt get her way she would hit me or our little baby sister. She once desided to hit her self, and get her self but into a mental home. There, we relize she has Bi-Poler.
I also suffer from Deep Depression, some of the reason is my sisters fault. I was put into a mental home for writing a small story of my life, cutting. There, they dianosed me with MDD(Major Depression Disorder.)

What I advice to you is try to get along with your bro, like I am with my sister. Dont let him get worse. I am tring not to let my sister get worse, She is bad right now, but I think we can deal with her.
Also is your Bro taking anything for his AD/HD? My sister is on the patch called Daytrana. Its some new Medicence and it works wonders! All the pills did help her. But i not saying Dope him up so much he doesnt do anything. But do have your Mother or Father talk to this doctor and see if its right for him!

Also the Depression. My depression is coming back, and I fear i am going to be put back into the metal home, but i am not cutting YET. Maybe you should tell your Mom or dad about it... Because no one can help you unless you take the step to tell some one..

well thats all i have to say... sorry for any major bad spelling

Wow someone who has similar problems to me...

He has been prescribed with many medications in the past and none of them have worked at all. Now he just refuses medication altogether (its hard telling a 15 year old boy what to do)

I really dont feel like burdening my parents with my problems too..so im just trying to keep things to myself at the moment..

Wow, my sister refuses the meds all toghter to. but we make sure she tkes the patch.

I like to keep my problems to myself also, but it sometime doesnt help at all.

i'm Sory bout it...but I never passsed in stuff like that... sry... gd luck