i have been friends with this kid for the last two years call him "frank" well i have never connected with a human being on this leavel before and me and frank were good buds up until i got him this job at a warehouse i used to work at. well i ended up being demoted because of a stupid move on my part while unloading a trailer during a 13 hour day... lets say i gave a trailer a sky light with the mast of my fork lift. well i got swtiched to the other warehouse where all the rejects go.

i was franks mode of trasportaion until i got swtiched than franks mom bought him a car and he get cocky. i havent hung out with him since i got swtiched and eventually laid off because of seasonal reasons. he will call me some times and just talk a little bit. every time i mention hanging out during the week end he "has some stuff going on" and he is going to partys with guys from work and everything else.

do you think i should confront him about why he doesnt want to hang out or should i just let it be and see if his head shrinks abit?. does anyone else have any thoughts on why hes pulling this?

thanks

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Hey Evan,

Sometimes, you have to confront someone just to actually get the whole side of the story and why they do the things they do. I do suggest you go talk to Frank and ask him why he doesn't seem to want to hang out anymore. There may be other things going on inside his head and he's probably going through some tough times, who knows? You just have to talk to him about it and tell him that you really don't know what brought this behavior up. He might not even know what it is that he's doing, which is another good reason for you to bring it up.

Good luck!
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armyforthebroken

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Hello there Evan,

If I were you, i'd talk to Frank about this all. Ask him maybe whats going on with him? Why he doesn't seem so enthustiastic about hanging out with you anymore? If he genuine reasons for not wanting, or can't possibly spend time with you, then thats fair enough, you know? Can't be helped. But, if he is making excuses, it's best to just confront him, and see what he has to say about it all. How does that sound?

As armyforthebroken said - he might not even realise he's doing this, or how its making you feel. So go for it, see what he has to say.

Good luck with it all, Evan.

Support Leader,
SimpleGirl*

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you should be straight up with him, better than feeling the cold shoulder. tell him how you feel about the situation.

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I think it's a good idea to confront him. Like the others said you will get his side of the story, whether is true or not and then you can decided if you want to still be friends with him.

just talkedto him, he wants to hang this weekend and go shooting.... let see what happens

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Yeah. You have to talk to him. That is all I can tell you for now.

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Hate to break it to ya but it's probably cos he has threesomes with your mum and dad and thinks its awkward if he meets with you

i'd talk to him
if he keeps ditching you
is he really worth it ?

talk to her. get her to grow up. or you can try taking interest in what she likes. there has to be a compromise somewhere

Just talk to him and let him know how you feel.....

Communication is always needed in times like these..

Good luck!

i think that frank either doesn't want to be seen with you (as harsh as that sounds) or his ego is just too big. just call him to see how he's been doing, but don't approach him to hang out. if he doesn't want to hang out, he won't bring it up. there is actually nothing you can do about if he wants to hang out or not =} sorry.

Relax man.Make some new friends to kick it with.
after while you and frank will start hanging out again.

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