Originally Posted by BritLBritBrit
ive been having sex w/ my cousin for like a year and a half now. ive never come onto him its always his idea to fuck me. i dont wanna say no cuz i really really like him and thought he was nice and didnt wanna upset him or hurt him by saying no. and i am attracted. i would totally be into fucking him if he werent my cousin. its like bittersweet when we do it i like it cuz i like him and hes so hot but at the same time im like damn, this is my cousin.
so anyways we made a little movie like during the summer 4 months ago or so and we were drunk so id completely forgotten until recently. but last week i told him i want to stop having sex w/ him and he got really angry but quiet and just said fine its okay and left my house but the next day he came back and said you know what if you stop fucking me ill show our family the movie. i know hes not lying. hes really proud of doing it with me and would get some sick satisfaction of anyone knowing. hes already told 2 of his friends awhile ago
what should i do?
Unlike B*tch, it’s not for me to judge you. You were courageous enough to admit that having sex with your cousin was wrong and that he's now blackmailing you and you're desperate for help.
You know - it’s so easy to be sexually aroused in making out - happens to every one of us. Your desire for sex with your cousin went and gotten so strong cause the bastard turned you on, he manipulated all your “switches”, gotten you craving for sex and you did it. Even though you felt it was wrong, you nevertheless were feeling bad as he was your cousin.
Ok, so let’s put into perspective the situation now. You refuse your cousin sex, so he'll show the film to your family. Except you hold the Ace. You go tell your mum or your dad (whichever you're closest to), and tell them what happened, and that your cousin is blackmailing you. Ok, your parent(s) are going to be shocked, upset and maybe even a little disgusted with you. But you owned up, pet. You told them the truth like a fine brave girl that you are. Because in your family's eyes he'll be damned. Damned for blackmailing you, a despicable, hateful act of belligerence for not having his own selfish way. But your parents will tackle him don’t you worry. They’ll make him feel dreadful for attempting to blackmail you, that’s for sure.
So okay, you messed up but so what? We all make mistakes, at I have. Because after being brave and honest in telling you parents - you will have achieved something so good, you will become all the stronger for it. Because then you can hold your head up and go forward, your experience though never to be forgotten will only make you stronger, and any guilt washed away because you did the right thing.