Recently i have been a little confused. i have since October become sick and have had a friend, to which i would of called my "best" friend, who when I was previously having problems at home etc helped me an amazing amount. However since i've become sick this time she has not bothered helping at all claiming me to be too intense and that she "can't give from an overflow". I have apologized for all my wrong doings and have offered a present as a peace offering to which she just ignored. I have been having seizures and i really could do with her friendship. However it is like she has got other problem less friends so cant be bothered with me anymore is this right? What shall i do? I hate falling out with people but I can't attended college and she wont pick up my calls. All because i moved her down in my myspace top friends. Is she being pathetic? She should say sorry just like me right? PLEASE HELP I AM AT A LOSS AND NEED ADVICE. I just want the truth weather its me or her thats out of order. And what i should do to sort it out.

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Well I think that you should definitley try somehow to explain to her that it's not your fault you are really ill and that at this moment in time you could really use their friendship but you're not asking them to do everything for you. It's kinda childish and pathetic that she's done all this simply because you moved her down in your myspace top friends, I'd also explain that top friends on myspace don't really mean anything and you didn't mean to make her feel like she wasn't a good friend anymore.

Good luck!

lllness is a funny fun it can hit you , you really
arent childish and patetic because u no
she kinda ditched u when u needed her the
most ill give u my msn if u wanna
talk

thats fucked up. that just shows how low she is. she isn't your best friend at all. thats all you need to know >_>

I don't mean to be offensive to you, your friend or other people, but if she got mad because you moved her down on your Top Whatever on Myspace, then that's not how a friend, good friend, or best friend is supposed to act. Yes, she has been there for you in your time of need, but presently - she needs to get over the Top Friends thing and try to be there for you. And to be frank, you do not have to apologize for anything at all (unless you've done something serious here), she should be the one to apologize. If she can't, then that's her deal and you do not need this girl in your life. Matter of fact, you're better without.

Although, if she is somebody who means a whole lot to you and you want to continue that friendship, keep doing what you're doing: Try contacting her as much as you possibly can and talk to her about how you're feeling. Perhaps if you mentioned that you need her right now and it'll be awesome if she were there for you as a friend, then she'll realize how ridiculous it was to get mad over something petty. I really hate to see a good friendship die, but sometimes it happens. The most important thing is you still care about her.

Good luck!
armyforthebroken

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