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12-03-2009, 05:40 AM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 1,267
Money: 1,531 Last Online: 03-14-2010 06:02 AM My Mood: | Friend wont invite me to his house Ive known this guy for a couple years now and he has never invited me to his house. Whenever I try to invite myself, he always puts it off. He has been to my house loads of times and he has no problems with that, niether do I.
Should I straight up ask and tell him, I wanna come to your house and hang out?
Or should I just leave it.
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12-03-2009, 05:56 AM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 9,010
Money: 108,565 Last Online: Today 04:18 AM | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house Just leave it, he might have problems at home or something. Maybe he is embarressed about something. I wouldn't risk it. He will have a reason to not have people over, its best to respect that.
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12-03-2009, 02:33 PM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 83
Money: 699 Last Online: 12-04-2009 02:53 AM | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house Quote:
Originally Posted by Alex Just leave it, he might have problems at home or something. Maybe he is embarressed about something. I wouldn't risk it. He will have a reason to not have people over, its best to respect that. | exatly what i was going to say^
or maybe hes secretely ashamed of you? lol jj |
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12-03-2009, 03:29 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 159
Money: 1,584 Last Online: Today 11:59 AM My Mood: | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house dont push its probaly nothing against you. hes just uncomfortable or ashamed of something maybe problems at home |
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12-03-2009, 03:30 PM
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Originally Posted by Alex Just leave it, he might have problems at home or something. Maybe he is embarressed about something. I wouldn't risk it. He will have a reason to not have people over, its best to respect that. | You changed my mind of what I was going to post, I agree with you.
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12-03-2009, 09:11 PM
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Name: Ashleigh Gender: Female Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Wales Posts: 941
Money: 2,966 Last Online: 03-05-2010 05:56 PM My Mood: | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house Quote:
Originally Posted by Bektas Ive known this guy for a couple years now and he has never invited me to his house. Whenever I try to invite myself, he always puts it off. He has been to my house loads of times and he has no problems with that, niether do I.
Should I straight up ask and tell him, I wanna come to your house and hang out?
Or should I just leave it. | I think that's really weird, maybe he feels as if your home life is a lot better than his, and maybe when he compares them he feels ashamed. I'm sure he will invite you over one day, but until then I don't see why he can't just go to your house, I know that's unfair but if he has a problem with it, you need to kind of accept that.
You could just ask if there's a problem with you going there, tell him it doesn't really bother you, but you'd like to know so you could possibly help him out.
That's kind of what mates are for, right? |
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12-04-2009, 08:18 AM
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Gender: Female Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 161
Money: 929 Last Online: 01-02-2010 06:51 AM My Mood: | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house First dont really know why this bothers you and second maybe he has someting he is ashamed of. |
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01-02-2010, 01:50 PM
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Name: Nick Gender: Male Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Abbotsford BC Canada Posts: 52
Money: 512 Last Online: 01-17-2010 03:47 PM | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house shitty |
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01-04-2010, 03:25 AM
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01-04-2010, 04:20 AM
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Name: Lester Gender: Male Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Home Posts: 303
Money: 1,317 Last Online: Today 07:52 AM My Mood: | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house I don't like people that I don't hang out with much at my house. Well I don't like them entering my house you can come but you have to stay outside.
Just leave maybe there is something at home that he is hiding. |
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01-04-2010, 09:29 PM
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Gender: Male Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Sydney Posts: 156
Money: -1,133 Last Online: 01-16-2010 01:27 PM My Mood: | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house Problems at home? I didn't kno where my girlfriend lived until a year into out relationship all because she lives in a lower income area, she was just ashamed for some reason, and thought that i wouldn't like her anymore. Maybe he thinks your going to not wanna be his friend anymore.
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01-05-2010, 12:29 AM
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Name: Can't tell ya Gender: Male Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 23
Money: 163 Last Online: 02-16-2010 02:56 PM | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house continue just being there for him. If he goes to your house all the time it may be to get out of his. everyone has things they are embarrassed/ashamed of. best to let them be and if he need someone to talk to about something, be there. |
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01-08-2010, 10:37 AM
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Name: Anthony Gender: Male Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Earth Posts: 40
Money: -331 Last Online: 03-11-2010 04:45 AM | Re: Friend wont invite me to his house His house might be really messy and unpresentable like mine xD
Maybe he is shy to tell his parents that a girl is coming over.
Don't know... maybe you should ASK HIM! |
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01-09-2010, 09:53 AM
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