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Old 02-08-2012, 08:57 AM   #1
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I wasn't sure whether or not to put this thread in this forum or the sexuality forum so I'm sorry if I posted it in the wrong place!

I'm 18 now but ever since I was even 5 or 6 I've had a strong feeling that I didn't want to be a boy anymore. When I was really young I used to try to be like and compare myself with girls I knew, and there's actually been hundreds of nights when even though I was really young and I don't think I completely understood my feelings, I used to truly wish that I'd go to sleep as a boy and wake up as a girl.

I still feel that way now and I don't want to be a boy. It's really weird to explain but especially really small things about being a girl, even things that some people would say are negative qualities, really make me wish I was a girl even more, and nothing else in the world makes me as jealous or as envious as when I'm casually going about my day and a thousand different things draw my attention to the female gender because it makes me wish so much that I was part of a girl. It seems like absolutely everything under the sun makes me feel this way.

Since I was maybe 11 or 12 I've been friends with a few girls and several have even asked me out to dances or told me wanted to take our friendship to another level but I just can't. I can't make myself feel right being the male figure in a relationship because I just want to experience the female side of it, and be her in the relationship with a man. Even the idea of the physical aspects (intimate and not intimate) of being a male in a relationship with a girl make me feel like I'm suffocating.

I've never told anyone about how I feel. It completely terrifies me just thinking about telling my family about how I feel not because I think they'd reject me or anything extreme, but because explaining all this to my family would be the most humiliating thing in the world and every time they see me I wouldn't want them to identify me as offbeat or anything. I've considered the idea of going away for University or afterwards for work sometime in my twenties and figuring out a way I can act on how I've felt for so long but even when I imagine doing this wouldn't my coworkers, peers, university profs or just everyone know if I did pursued something like a sex change? And wouldn't my parents and family eventually find out eventually anyway? And even if I could somehow conceal something big like a sex change would it be right from that moment on to live completely as a female without telling anyone my past even though being identified as a girl who's really always been a girl is the very first thing I would and always have wished for?
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Old 02-15-2012, 07:54 PM   #2
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Re: transgendered

Well, this is a complex subject, and I think it would be a thousand times better for you to get advice from an actual transgendered person. But what I can tell you is that there's nothing wrong with how you feel. From what you've shared, I can't really decide if you're most probably transgendered or not. I don't know how it feels. And while you're still young, I think you're old enough to have clearer thoughts and feelings. I'm sorry I can't help much, I'll just advise you to talk to a psychologist or another transgendered person. If you don't want anyone to find out, I'm sure there's other alternatives like doing it through the internet or even by phone.

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