07-10-2012, 12:14 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2012
Re: Coming out !
your parents will love you no matter what, but it will take some time for them to get used to the "change" although it may not change who you are it will change the way they think about you, and it may not be good (just being honest) but you have to think about what your parents have been through with you, even if it doesnt seem like it your parents have been planning your future since the day you were born, thinking about how you would be with your wife and kids and everything else, and coming out, kind of crushes those dream for them, so it may take some time, possibly months for them to relize that everthings ok, and just because your gay, doesnt mean that you cant do those same things, but you just gotta wait it out, and they might be great with it, and everything will be ok, or they might not be ok with it, and just never mention it again
but you need to let your parents know that they might not like it, and you know what, they dont have to like it, but they do need to accept it, because its who you are