I just realized it :D

PilotBoi · 10-04-2008, 06:27 PM

I recently discovered that I was bi, but I can't come out in my very small school, but I really desperately want a bf. Is there any way I can meet someone new outside of my school... any ideas? Any that are helpful would be amazingly great!

Dumbfox · 10-05-2008, 12:24 AM

Go to a few out of school clubs or sporting events you never know you might find someone with the same interests

Brainwiped · 10-05-2008, 12:54 AM

Bi-Five

lol- but go to sports events or parties

PilotBoi · 10-05-2008, 11:19 AM

Bi-five down low, and yeah I will start going

musicgeek#23 · 10-05-2008, 12:21 PM

Hey, well first off, congrats on figuring it out!

Is there a GSA (gay-straight alliance) at your school? You might also try extracurricular programs in the arts (this is not to say that gay and bi people don't do sports; but my guess is, it's just somewhat more likely the case that you'll find more people who are 'out' in the arts, where it's traditionally been more accepted) or definitely go to events like concerts or shows or galleries or games--especially those which might be geared toward gay- or bi auditors or fans, or have progressive sponsors.

Good luck!

Brainwiped · 10-05-2008, 05:34 PM

musicgeek- nice sig

yeah- arts might be more gay/bi people there. and we arty people are all pretty liberal anyway- so you dont get so much homophobia.
but i'd still say parties and clubbing is the best bet...

JmanW · 10-05-2008, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by PilotBoi

I recently discovered that I was bi, but I can't come out in my very small school, but I really desperately want a bf. Is there any way I can meet someone new outside of my school... any ideas? Any that are helpful would be amazingly great!

Congrats on coming out of the closet to a few thousand online people

So when u plannin on tellin ur rents ?? Ahh nvm I know that won't happen !!

Anyways, if you want a boyfriend get involved with sports, especially sports. Alot of gay experiences happen in sports, trust me.

Arts is pretty much an openly gay community but you can still get those douches that make fun of ppl, just be careful and play it easy. It'll come to you !!

If you just want to know someone over msn or somethin like that just look around on forums u'll find someone in no time !!

Other then that just check out : Teen Video Chat Room - Free webcam chat rooms site for teens age 13 19 years old

Alot of gay / bi ppl there.

PilotBoi · 10-08-2008, 06:26 PM

So I went on a chatroom, and I met a great guy an hour away. Hes so great

Thanks you guys! And I almost told my mom last night... but I totally chickened out XD

Dumbfox · 10-08-2008, 11:34 PM

Good going mate, wish it was that easy for all of us

*Blake* · 10-09-2008, 12:25 AM

Just be careful if you're going to meet him, eh.

(That advice echoes of dial up modems and the 90's

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PleaseEnterUserNameHere · 10-11-2008, 08:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by PilotBoi

I recently discovered that I was bi, but I can't come out in my very small school, but I really desperately want a bf. Is there any way I can meet someone new outside of my school... any ideas? Any that are helpful would be amazingly great!

Well done for Accepting yourself, this is the hardest bit over

There might be a lgbt club in your area, you could join that

or you could use a site like
thegyc.com to meet some people