Way Confused

Milk? · 11-19-2009, 11:41 PM

Well im straight as far as i know i have a boyfriend but recently iv met this girl, shes become a best friend and shes bi. We talk every night and see each other all the time like normal friends but iv started getting really starnge feeling for her. I hardly see my boyfriend now im crazy over her

i dont wanna be bi but i know i dont choose that. But its only this one girl and i have this thing if she was to have feelings for me too id jump straight in there D: any advice ?

<- wow thats how i feel.

CalifornianDream · 11-19-2009, 11:55 PM

could just be a close friendly bond you have. Can you describe the feelings? I would have thought you were attracted to girls in general if you were bi. i feel like this towards a close friend, but i know i actually fancy her =/
you just know.

xman · 11-20-2009, 01:17 AM

are you sexually attracted?

Milk? · 11-20-2009, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by xman

are you sexually attracted?

well yes, I have a best friend who is also a girl (Im very close to her) and we do anything and im not attracted to her one bit and shes what guys would call 'fit' but this other girl its totally different :/ i feel weird around or even thinkin about her.

idreamoflove · 11-20-2009, 04:23 AM

Well if it' just this one girl than you're probably not bi. Studies have shown that 80 percent of straight people have at least one crush on someone of the same gender, or so I heard on this show about being bi curious. I'm a bisexual, and I know that I've liked girls for as long as I can remember, but who knows this could be the start of a whole new bisexual world for you. I think all you can do is just sit around and wait to see if you like other girls as well.

ForeverInnocent · 11-20-2009, 10:03 PM

This is normal. My friend is super straight, but she has several crushes on girls. Also, this one friend of mine only likes boys in general, however, a girl had stolen her heart.