Why would my mother lie to me about this?

Nocta · 09-09-2011, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by QWERTY531

She lived in the Philippines as a kid, and they had very little food and nearly starved every day just trying to scrape by. Ergo, she moves to America and tries to turn my dad into a circle.

I know what you mean but you just have to learn to say no. My family is just like yours. Cooking for other people is a way to show your love but obviously there's a limit. You just have to learn to say no. It's not rejecting her love. You're the one that eat, not her.
ALWAYS be thankful of having food on your table and that you're not starving because you'll know who your mother feels.

Let her know that you appreciate her love and when you're full/satisfied.

lazyday · 09-09-2011, 12:37 PM

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Originally Posted by QWERTY531

My mother. Ever since I was a little kid, she constantly told me I was "perfect". I wasn't too fat, too skinny, or too ugly.

Then I look in the mirror one day, and, fuck.

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I'm the one in the middle.

Why would she lie to me? Even when I tell her that I'm somewhat fat and need to work out, she just yells at me and says I'm "skinny".

WE GOT OURSELVES A SITUATION

hit the treadmill fat boy. start pounding the pavement and pump some iron, srsly. if ur mama feeds u THATS FUCKING GOOD WHATS WRONG WITH U IDIOTFAG. the more ur fed = the more muscle u can build. muscle = strength and power. be like a lion, my son