So this girl in my class started talking to me and giving more attention to me than anyone else. When we see each other in halls we say hey and all of that, and i added her on facebook and asked if she wanted to go to the movies, and she said yes. It seemed like we had a great time, but i kind of messed up at the end. I didn't give her a goodbye hug or anything :/. Anyhow she honestly seems like she likes me since she giggles, laughs, and i her friends are giving hints that shes been talking about me. I joke around a lot, so i asked her if she's been talking to anyone, and she said she broke up with her boyfriend a couple weeks ago. So i kinda jokingly said, "So your not talking to me? damn." Since i thought she liked me, i thought she would agree or say something along those lines" She replied, "I didnt know we were talking?". Now it's been kinda awkward ever since i said that. I don't get it though... i asked her out and she acts like she likes me but then she doesn't? I mean she didn't say that she didn't like me or anything like that, but idk... I don't get it. Since she knows i like her, do you think it's a good idea to wait a couple days and see if she will go out with me again? Maybe start over or something...

Dude, doesn't seem like it went awkward. Sounds like YOU went awkward, or you THINK it went awkward because you thought what she said was weird or out of step with how you thought things were going. Meaning...looks like it was nothing, you misinterpreted it by over-thinking, then changed from being a cool guy having a good time, to a self-conscious one wondering what went wrong. Then shit got weird...

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I honestly don't get it anymore, she seemed like she was into me, and now she barely gives any attention to me because of that text. I totally fucked up, and i have no idea how to fix it. She barely ever talks to me in class anymore, and she takes hours to respond to my texts. She still gives me that "look". I don't understand lol. I know for a fact she has her phone on her all the time, because before i said what i said, she used to respond quickly.

Ok, relax dude. Don't overthink. I've been in a relationship for almost 6 months now, and whenever I panic I did something wrong, I just ask. Now, just asking "did I do something wrong when we went to the movies?" obviously won't help, but the point is, be honest. Tell her that you're worried you made things awkward, and ask her if you did. The trick here is how you phrase it. Humans love to contradict, so say something along the lines of "Hey, im just wondering, a few months ago when we went to the cinema, did I mess something up? I guess thats something i would do. But uh, what was it?" She is likely to respond with a) the thing that you need to fix, or b) saying you werent bad and trying to console you. Use that to your advantage. Hope this helps.

I didn't do anything wrong when we went out. Its that text conversation that ruined everything. I texted her if she wanted to hang out and she hasn't responded yet. I honestly don't get it. Maybe ill just leave her alone for a couple weeks,idk. That convo made her not reply to any of my texts and she barely talks to me. So lame!

Hey, it's alright. Just make sure she knows you are there, dont let her forget. However, dont bug her 24/7. Just occasionally send her a quick text, light conversation only for the first couple sentences. Only bring up a serious topic once you are a ways into the lighter "small talk". If she closes up, go back to small talk.

Well i asked if she wanted to hang out, and she hasn't replied so I'ma just leave her alone. Whatever... i don't get it. I'm not sure if i was getting the wrong intentions, but i totally ruined the friendship and it sucks! She doesn't reply to anything i text her or she takes hours if it's something simple. I honestly would love to know what shes thinking, but we're in the same class and i don't want it to be more awkward than it is. Maybe i should text her what's on my mind and clear the air and restart? That kinda makes me feel like a puss though hah. School is almost over so maybe once it's over I'll ask lol. She didn't even reply to a "whats up" on facebook... I am so fucking confused. One small conversation just totally ruined everything.

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No, I think you're right. The best way to deal with this, i think, is to just try to start over. You may have to confront her in person though, just use some of the natural charm i'm sure you have Your goal is to get her to respond over electronic mediums, and overall interact with you again. From there anything is possible!

what an odd dude

Well i don't know what to think. Every time she see's me she smiles, but rarely ever says anything to me. I have to be the first one to say hey, and she'll respond. She responds to my texts, but i can't really keep a conversation going because i think she will not reply. It's more like, hey whats up, and that's it. I don't know what else to ask her. She honestly seems like shes mad about something and is waiting for something, but I'm not exactly sure.

Try not to overthink or panic.