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06-03-2012, 12:29 AM
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Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Making friends Hey guys
Sorry if this is boring or doesn't make sense.
I don't usually ask for advice, but i really need help. I don't actually have a problem making friends like the title says, but I have trust issues and I'm socially awkward, so I find it hard to open up to people.
I've recently made a new friend and I don't say much when we talk. I don't want to seem careless, but I don't know how to open up about myself.
To sum it up, does anyone have any tips to help me be easy going and express myself?
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06-03-2012, 12:30 AM
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#2 | | pabaiga
Name: Paulius Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Lithuania Posts: 9,035
Money: 35,375,458 Last Online: Today 03:42 AM | Re: Making friends Just talk, experience comes with time. Tell something about yourself, ask the person questions about things you're comfortable talking about 
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06-03-2012, 12:53 AM
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Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends I know but i feel like they wont care. But thanks for the advice, Ill try it  |
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06-03-2012, 01:03 AM
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#4 | | pabaiga
Name: Paulius Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Lithuania Posts: 9,035
Money: 35,375,458 Last Online: Today 03:42 AM | Re: Making friends Friends care. No need to be so self concious.
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06-03-2012, 01:07 AM
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#5 | | New Member
Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends Not this friend, he doesn't |
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06-03-2012, 01:15 AM
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#6 | | pabaiga
Name: Paulius Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Lithuania Posts: 9,035
Money: 35,375,458 Last Online: Today 03:42 AM | Re: Making friends How do you know?
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06-03-2012, 01:19 AM
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#7 | | New Member
Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends I just do :P |
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06-03-2012, 01:26 AM
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Name: Jonathan Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 163
Money: 4,154 Last Online: 06-12-2013 10:51 PM My Mood: | Re: Making friends I'm one of the quiet types too. But over time my friends have come to accept it. Just be yourself. Friends will be friends
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06-03-2012, 01:26 AM
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Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends Thanks |
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06-03-2012, 01:26 AM
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Name: Jonathan Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 163
Money: 4,154 Last Online: 06-12-2013 10:51 PM My Mood: | Re: Making friends I hate meeting new people. I'm never the first to start the conversation. Usually I only speak when spoken to
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In a lot of ways it's our humor that allows us to conquer death. It's our humor that lets us live. Even if it's temporary, just for a day, it's survival. We have to rise above death. We have to laugh in its face.
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06-03-2012, 01:32 AM
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#11 | | New Member
Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends Me too but my friends are very outgoing so I'm always in the back. I'm too shy but I'm fun to be around when you get to know me. Just a lil anti social |
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06-03-2012, 01:39 AM
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Name: Jonathan Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 163
Money: 4,154 Last Online: 06-12-2013 10:51 PM My Mood: | Re: Making friends That's exactly how I am. Don't worry there's nothing wrong with it. My friends are out there gettin all the girls. Flirting and everything. I'm the one sitting back and chillin. I've had one real girlfriend before. My friend introduced us. I never started the conversations at first until I got to know her and she got to know me. We dated for about a month and I still hardly talked to her. She'd call me and she would spend hours talking and I'd just add a sentence or two every now and then
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In a lot of ways it's our humor that allows us to conquer death. It's our humor that lets us live. Even if it's temporary, just for a day, it's survival. We have to rise above death. We have to laugh in its face.
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06-03-2012, 01:48 AM
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#13 | | New Member
Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends Yeah that's what i do unless i'm extremely comfortable with the other person. But the problem is that my friend keeps complaining that he's the one doing all the talking. I feel bad but i have know idea what to say. |
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06-03-2012, 01:55 AM
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Name: Jonathan Gender: Male Join Date: Apr 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 163
Money: 4,154 Last Online: 06-12-2013 10:51 PM My Mood: | Re: Making friends Just tell him straight up that's just how you are. I'm sure he'll understand
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In a lot of ways it's our humor that allows us to conquer death. It's our humor that lets us live. Even if it's temporary, just for a day, it's survival. We have to rise above death. We have to laugh in its face.
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06-03-2012, 02:03 AM
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Gender: Female Join Date: May 2012 Location: Lost in insanity Posts: 75
Money: 3,035 Last Online: 07-30-2012 12:29 AM My Mood: | Re: Making friends Told him already. He gets it but i dont want it to bother him. Thanks for your advice, its great  |
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