Teen Forums




Go Back   Teen Forums » Teen Forums Life » Teen Advice

Reply
Old 09-08-2012, 09:36 AM   #1
New Member



 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 3
Money: 423
Last Online: 10-01-2012 05:08 PM


My Mood:


kaylakmb is on a distinguished road




Help and Advice ? Please

So me and my friend were bored so we went on kik we started to talk to this one guy. I continued to talk to him after she left and we have been talking for almost the whole summer. We have gotten really close over those few months. I never expected to get close or anything. But, when my friend used the kik accout we just used a random picture of some girl from google cause obviously we didn't want any creeps ya know? Well now here comes my problem, the other week he told me he has stage 3 pancreatic cancer. I feel even more terrible about lying to him about the picture and yeah. I felt conflicted on if I should tell him the truth or not cause he doesn't need another thing to be upset about. I would like to think he would be understanding but yeah :/ what should I do ? Thanks Sorry that was so long.
kaylakmb is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-08-2012, 06:33 PM   #2
Super VIP Member


 
Mrs. Butterworth's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 12,812
Money: 1,961,188,538




Mrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond repute
Mrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond repute




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

Want some advice? Stop spacing your punctuation; it looks retarded.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob
[10:15 PM] rob: cookie i'll make you crumble if you keep bothering me
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tanner
[20:30] chubbychaser: "you jelly?" no i'm toast bitch gtfo
Quote:
Originally Posted by ANTI CONDOM View Post
Do you kids smelllllllalalalalalalalala what MRS. BUTTERSWORTH is cooking? Hee Hee!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Blordan on Tinychat
[14:21] theheroicone: no worry kiddies, as long as you have a good heart you're fine
[14:21] theheroicone: unless you're person 144,001
Mrs. Butterworth is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Advertisement
 
Advertisement
Friends & Partners



Old 09-12-2012, 01:05 AM   #3
New Member



 
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 3
Money: 251
Last Online: 09-12-2012 01:19 AM




cinderellamissinaslipper is on a distinguished road




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

You should be honest and tell him.
cinderellamissinaslipper is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-19-2012, 08:59 PM   #4
New Member



 
Gender: Male
Join Date: Jun 2012
Posts: 28
Money: 484
Last Online: 01-26-2013 05:16 PM




YoungVanilla is on a distinguished road




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

Oh. That's sad. I'd reckon don't tell him just yet. Still, it depends on what exactly the situation between you guys is. You need to decide.
YoungVanilla is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-28-2012, 02:36 AM   #5
New Member



 
TaraWara<3's Avatar
 
Name: Tara
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: Great Britain
Posts: 13
Money: 830
Last Online: 10-31-2012 11:51 PM


My Mood:


TaraWara<3 is just really niceTaraWara<3 is just really niceTaraWara<3 is just really nice




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

Hey, I don't think he'll be angry at you.. Just explain to him! I think you'll actually be surprised at his response. You two have obviously grown close and I doubt he'd want to lose you. Don't you want him to know the real you? I think he deserves that..
TaraWara<3 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-28-2012, 09:03 AM   #6
Member



 
Join Date: May 2012
Posts: 271
Money: 2,152
Last Online: 08-22-2014 08:47 PM


My Mood:


smurfs is just really nicesmurfs is just really nicesmurfs is just really nice




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

Yea, I agree with everyone, just tell him. He'll understand, people know about how there are creeps on the internet, and you need to protect yourself from people you don't know, and now you know him so it's better.
smurfs is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-28-2012, 10:03 PM   #7
New Member



 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Posts: 1
Money: 250
Last Online: 10-02-2012 04:18 AM




Silver_Cat is on a distinguished road




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

I think what you should do really depends on how well you actually know this guy. Do you trust that he wouldn't lie to you about something like that? There are a lot of people online who might try to use a sad story to gain sympathy in order to manipulate people. A summer of only talking online is not a very good basis to actually get to know someone. Honestly I'm not sure that you really need to tell him right now, if the two of you are not planning on meeting in person I'm not sure why it matters that he doesn't know what you look like. If you two really know each other well, then it doesn't matter what you look like because he doesn't talk to you for your looks, and you initially lying to him about the picture had nothing to do with him and was simply something you did to protect yourself from potential predators. I understand why you feel conflicted, but I don't think this is a particularly big deal. To me there's no real reason to make a big production over spilling the beans. If you two do ever decide to meet in person (and I cannot stress enough how CAREFUL you should be with decisions like that) then you can tell him about the photo. By that time hopefully it will be such water under the bridge that it won't even matter and the two of you can laugh about it. But don't feel bad, you haven't done anything wrong.
Silver_Cat is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-28-2012, 10:12 PM   #8
.


 
JennyColada's Avatar
 
Name: Jenny
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: Awesometown, California
Posts: 4,204
Money: 220,050,996
Last Online: Yesterday 03:55 PM




JennyColada has a reputation beyond repute
JennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond reputeJennyColada has a reputation beyond repute




Send a message via AIM to JennyColada Send a message via MSN to JennyColada Send a message via Skype™ to JennyColada
Re: Help and Advice ? Please

Quote:
Originally Posted by Mrs. Butterworth View Post
Want some advice? Stop spacing your punctuation; it looks retarded.
She only did it once in the entire post. It was likely a mistake.

- - -
As others have said, I'd be honest with him in not being honest bothers you. You two have been talking long enough that he likely enjoys talking to you for your personality, not your looks.
JennyColada is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 09-29-2012, 05:28 AM   #9
Super VIP Member


 
Mrs. Butterworth's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2009
Posts: 12,812
Money: 1,961,188,538




Mrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond repute
Mrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond reputeMrs. Butterworth has a reputation beyond repute




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

Quote:
Originally Posted by JennyColada View Post
She only did it once in the entire post. It was likely a mistake.

- - -
As others have said, I'd be honest with him in not being honest bothers you. You two have been talking long enough that he likely enjoys talking to you for your personality, not your looks.
It's an annoying fad that I've been seeing a lot lately.
__________________
Quote:
Originally Posted by Rob
[10:15 PM] rob: cookie i'll make you crumble if you keep bothering me
Quote:
Originally Posted by Tanner
[20:30] chubbychaser: "you jelly?" no i'm toast bitch gtfo
Quote:
Originally Posted by ANTI CONDOM View Post
Do you kids smelllllllalalalalalalalala what MRS. BUTTERSWORTH is cooking? Hee Hee!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Blordan on Tinychat
[14:21] theheroicone: no worry kiddies, as long as you have a good heart you're fine
[14:21] theheroicone: unless you're person 144,001
Mrs. Butterworth is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 10-09-2012, 05:54 PM   #10
New Member



 
Name: Skyller bond
Gender: Male
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: new york
Posts: 4
Money: 346
Last Online: 10-13-2012 03:04 PM




Gerrardo is on a distinguished road




Re: Help and Advice ? Please

In my opinion, it will be good for you to understand exactly the problem of your friend that causes disappointed. if your friend likes watching something that is funny and romantic and he is living in abroad then it will be good to send him/her the type of pictures.
__________________
.
Gerrardo is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes


 
Friends and Partners



All times are GMT +6.5. The time now is 12:03 PM. Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.3.2
vBCredits v1.4 Copyright ©2007 - 2008, PixelFX Studios
Ad Management by RedTyger