Originally Posted by V1NC3
That's the thing! I want to ask during the rush because I know she might get taken if I wait too late but my (nervous) mind is also telling me to wait after the rush so I know she will say yes
Can I hear peoples' experiences?
I just said DON'T ask during the rush. You either ask before (to be sure she won't get taken) or after (so you know she'll say yes)
In this case, since it doesn't seem to be a long shot, I'd ask before.