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Old 06-25-2013, 02:49 PM   #1
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Drunk Father Issues

I need a little advice on how to handle the level of violence my dad brings when he gets shit faced. Almost every night nowadays he is coming home to immediately drink to get drunk. I would at least be able to accept that if my father was even tempered when drunk, but lately he has been lashing out at me and my brother. Mainly me of coarse, for sticking around. But he is more than just beginning to scare me, he is terrifying! Tonight he was throwing our only electronics around and shattered our laptop, then when I tried to stop him from breaking anything else he chased me up the stairs with a homemade torch! What should I do? I love my dad but things are getting way out of hand.
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Talk to someone who you trust about it, like your mother, family members, friends... That is the only advice I can give you sadly

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Re: Drunk Father Issues

What you're going through is hard. It's really difficult for anyone to help you here.. on the internet. As Jordio said, you should take help from a trusted adult or a school counselor maybe..

Have you tried talking to your Dad when he is sober?

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Re: Drunk Father Issues

I have attempted to talk to my dad but he doesnt believe me, and the last time I talked to a school councillor they threatened to involve CPS so I stopped searching for answers there. But I see what you two are saying. Thank you for your advice.
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You can also talk with your mom or family member

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Re: Drunk Father Issues

you need to call someone especially if you feel your safety is at risk
call the police or child services or someone who could help
you dad sounds like a raging alcoholic and thats not good. you need to notify someone of whats going on. he needs some AA
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Re: Drunk Father Issues

Just ask Jordi to come over and eat him up for you. He's your boyfriend and a UFC wannabe after all

Or just call your local CAS.
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Re: Drunk Father Issues

Have a serious talk about it and give him the evidence (electronics). Maybe mention that he should attend Alcohols Anonymous (AA). If he still does not listen, then I would follow through with your counselor. It will be worth it in the end if he does not change soon. My father was the same and I usually found somewhere else to sleep, I regret not doing something about it.
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I have attempted to talk to my dad but he doesnt believe me, and the last time I talked to a school councillor they threatened to involve CPS so I stopped searching for answers there. But I see what you two are saying. Thank you for your advice.
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Re: Drunk Father Issues

Perhaps set up a camera and record him losing it next time. That way, you'll have evidence you can show to either a councillor, social services (if it comes to that), or even to him if you think that'd make him believe you and change his ways. Possibly risky though.
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Re: Drunk Father Issues

My advice is kind of a Frankenstein of all the other stuff people have said. The next time your dad loses it, record him until he calms down. Don't let him see the camera. When he's sober, show him the video and anything he destroyed as proof that he's crazy when he's drunk. Try to have a talk with him, tell him how you feel when he's drunk and violent. Gently suggest he go to AA meetings, and if he gets angry and/or refuses, talk to your mom and your counselor about it. As a last resort, I would recommend calling CPS.
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Cant you ask an uncle or some elder relative to intervene?


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You need to call someone, it sounds like to me you and your brother's safety are more at risk.
Tell someone you can trust, and maybe even find a safe place where you and your brother can stay for a while?
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