Hi my life is horrible at the moment i love this girl who goes to my ballet class yet she lives so far away and lifes gr8 there but when i return back to school its hell people legging me up in the corridor taking the piss outa me cuz im pale it just really hurts and i was looking for someone to talk to about issues

thanks for reading

balletboy

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"It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return, but what is the most painfull is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel"

you dont need to take care of what they say, those guys need to get a lofe for they own, dont ever let them step over you, and about the girl i think you should just tell her and see what happens

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everyone laughs at me like if i give a fuck what they think...

Aw, Darling, Don't question your self worth over them, they aren' worth it. You may be pale, but still, they're just jacks. Infact, you look like a friend of mine who goes by Sherab. If you ever want to talk about anything, I'm here .

-Danneh

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Living was never my Choice (But it seems to be a requirement to graduate)

exactly like danneh said, btw hi there danny, nice to meet you lol

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everyone laughs at me like if i give a fuck what they think...

lol, Nice to meet ya.. Killy? Lol, anything in particular either of you'd like to go by?

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Living was never my Choice (But it seems to be a requirement to graduate)

well juts talk, how about yourself, boyfriend?? what you like??

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everyone laughs at me like if i give a fuck what they think...

Excuse my incredible ignorance, but... what does it mean to "leg someone up" ?

Tripping.

Although it'd be more appropriate to call it "legging somebody down."

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And your very flesh shall be a great poem.
-Walt Whitman

Oh, thanks.


Balletboy, getting teased is hard. Whether you believe in Him or not though, you do have a tremendous worth in Christ.
And because of that, you mean far more than you'd ever know even if these kids did lay off.
Just don't let it go to your heart, and don't retaliate.
Think of the friends you do have. Like that girl for instance. =)

Hope you feel better soon.

yea, definately!

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1. You are worth a lot, every human is worth "More than many sparrows"( I believe that is the right wording) I don't mean to get biblical but it is true (Sparrows were worth very much long ago, it was their main source of food) 2. Those kids are retarded, but if you wish the abuse to stop, here is an easy way to counter it: Glow with confidence, stick your chest out, walk with a spring, look up and in people's eyes show them that you are not there to take a beating. All creatures respond strongly to body language. 3. As I said already, girls too respond much to body language. I have gone through the same thing with a girl living far away. It's hard, but it's no reason to feel bad about yourself, you cannot control it. And lastly, I also am 14. We both have much to live up to. Find kids in your school like you, they can help you out much more than we can. Oh, and paleness is fine, Conan O Brien is loved by many for his comedy and personality. Not everyone judges you on your appearance.

Before you accept Christ, (unless you already have) find worth in yourself, and learn to trust and love yourself. Then you may find that you don't need Christ.

Everything does not come from God. Everything you depend on comes from within yourself, so that's where you should look for whatever you need.

(Saved-by-Grace: sorry to counter you wherever you post, but I think it's extremely important that people be self-reliant. And I think reliance in Christ hurts that.)

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And your very flesh shall be a great poem.
-Walt Whitman

Hey, no offense, but, psychologically, when we can't depend with only our self, and we had no one to rely on, we will need an imaginary friend. A friend who we can talk to, and a friend who we can fully trust in.
Christ, or any God from any religion helps us with that.
Maybe there's sometimes when we will say that we don't need God.
God, is just like our friend. And we can even trust Him/Her more than our best friend, because He/She will not say anything to anybody about us.
When we pray to our God, sometimes we heard an answer of our prayer.
People who thinks logically, will say that sound was our imagination or we talk to our self.
But, people who believe (including me), know that the sound was the sound of God.

people who tease like that, well they are immiture and have nothign better to do. I no its hard but just laugh and dont make a big reaction out it. If they get no reaction from u they wont get anything for their efforts, i do it when ppl take the piss. I treat them with no respect and i laugh and that on itself can dubb them to the floor.

I don't know why these people don't like you. But you can't feel like your the only one. Everybody gets bullied at some point at school. Although is sounds like they have taken a particular liking to bullying you.


One method to stop this is to ignore them and don't show them that what they are saying hurts your feelings. If you show them that it hurts you they will do it even more.

Another is to tell someone about it and try to get it stopped, your head of year, your headteacher, your parents and friends maybe.

Another is to stand up to them, ask them to leave you alone and/or why they bully you.


You are worth something, think of things this way in a few years you won't remember any of these people and they won't remember you. You will have your own friends and you will be leading your own life.

Forget those jerks and get on with your life, go out with your friends, make new friends, do whatever you want. Do what you want to do and ignore them.