Teen Forums




Go Back   Teen Forums » Teen Forums Life » Teen Advice

Closed Thread
Old 07-14-2007, 12:45 PM   #1
New Member



 
LostxWishes's Avatar
 
Name: Stephanie
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 57
Money: -1,198
Last Online: 09-25-2010 12:27 AM




LostxWishes is on a distinguished road




In love with my Bestfriend!

Okay, so I really, really, REALLY like my best guy friend... and I have for about 2 years. I dont know if he feels the same way about me, but all my friends keep telling me that we should go out. I want to, but I'm afraid if I tell him how I feel it will destroy our friendship. Should I tell him or just keep quiet and see what happens? I would appreciate ANY advice you all could give me. Thanks!
LostxWishes is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-14-2007, 12:48 PM   #2
Elite Member



 
Josh's Avatar
 
Name: Josh
Gender: Male
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Nor. California
Posts: 4,413
Money: 398,045
Last Online: 05-15-2011 09:32 AM




Josh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond reputeJosh has a reputation beyond repute




Send a message via AIM to Josh Send a message via MSN to Josh Send a message via Yahoo to Josh
Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

Talk to him.
Josh is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Advertisement
 
Advertisement
Friends & Partners



Old 07-14-2007, 01:06 PM   #3
New Member



 
LostxWishes's Avatar
 
Name: Stephanie
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 57
Money: -1,198
Last Online: 09-25-2010 12:27 AM




LostxWishes is on a distinguished road




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

I would but I'm a bit on the shy side.
LostxWishes is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-14-2007, 04:39 PM   #4
Junior Member



 
Matt1's Avatar
 
Name: Matthew Luke
Gender: Male
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: 4 8 15 16 23 42
Posts: 133
Money: -186
Last Online: 01-02-2008 06:34 AM




Matt1 will become famous soon enough




Send a message via ICQ to Matt1 Send a message via AIM to Matt1
Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

Do what your friend told you...
__________________
--True love does not come by finding the perfect person--
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.
-- Matthew --
Matt1 is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-14-2007, 04:54 PM   #5



 
Downtown.Music.Freak's Avatar
 
Name: Mae
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Toronto Canada
Posts: 1,294
Money: 26
Last Online: 10-04-2010 02:26 AM




Downtown.Music.Freak is a splendid one to beholdDowntown.Music.Freak is a splendid one to beholdDowntown.Music.Freak is a splendid one to beholdDowntown.Music.Freak is a splendid one to beholdDowntown.Music.Freak is a splendid one to behold




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

It's possible that your friendship will change. But if you really want to be with this guy... n u feel that you have a chance than go for it.
__________________
Life is too short to spend hoping that the perfectly arched eyebrow or hottest new lip shade will mask an ugly heart xx
Downtown.Music.Freak is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-14-2007, 07:03 PM   #6
Member



 
mopsymog's Avatar
 
Name: nicola
Gender: Female
Join Date: Oct 2006
Location: England
Posts: 392
Money: -69
Last Online: 08-26-2009 02:03 AM


My Mood:


mopsymog is a jewel in the roughmopsymog is a jewel in the rough




Send a message via MSN to mopsymog
Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

i can totally understand i have liked this boy for ages. i told him that i liked him and he never changed at all. i had been wanting to tell im for ages but i couldnt. i did though and i am glad i did. it never changed a thing except took the weight of likeing him off my shoulders. and besides if he thinks the same and is also shy to tell you something good may come out of it. you just have to be ready.
mopsymog is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-15-2007, 12:14 AM   #7
New Member



 
LostxWishes's Avatar
 
Name: Stephanie
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 57
Money: -1,198
Last Online: 09-25-2010 12:27 AM




LostxWishes is on a distinguished road




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

Thanks for all of your alls advice. I still dont know if I'm going to tell him or not but I appreciate it!
__________________
So here's to teenage romance...
and not knowing why
it hurts like hell!
LostxWishes is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-15-2007, 12:56 AM   #8
Super Elite Member



 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Posts: 6,040
Money: 15,837
Last Online: 10-26-2010 04:42 AM


My Mood:


$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute$ air $ has a reputation beyond repute




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

if theres another girl in the picture, dont do anything. if there isnt, talk to him about the way you feel. be prepared for rejection or the same feelings back at you that you have for him.
$ air $ is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-15-2007, 08:11 AM   #9
New Member



 
LostxWishes's Avatar
 
Name: Stephanie
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 57
Money: -1,198
Last Online: 09-25-2010 12:27 AM




LostxWishes is on a distinguished road




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

There isnt another girl in the picture he's single. Thanks for the advice!
__________________
So here's to teenage romance...
and not knowing why
it hurts like hell!
LostxWishes is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-15-2007, 08:41 AM   #10
Elite Member



 
armyforthebroken's Avatar
 
Name: Jenn
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: California
Posts: 3,184
Money: 21,880
Last Online: 10-14-2013 04:00 PM


My Mood:


armyforthebroken has a reputation beyond repute
armyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond repute




Send a message via MSN to armyforthebroken
Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

AH! That was the same exact position I was in like a few years ago. I liked my best friend David and I felt like it was my responsibility to tell him, because I'm a very open person and I want to tell him that I liked him.

I eventually told him right after school ended. Well, he asked me if I liked him but I denied it. And this is on instant messenger. SO a few minutes later, I just told him that I did like him and that I worried that one of us will change, if not both, somehow. I stayed the same and he changed. So, it was quite a different suprise and we didn't do anything about it. He used to be my best friend and now we hardly say one word to each other.

But, I advise you to tell him you truly feels and wish for the best. Who knows? He might feel the same way.
__________________
You bitches are beautiful.

Last edited by armyforthebroken; 07-17-2007 at 04:36 AM.. Reason: Grammar mistakes
armyforthebroken is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-15-2007, 10:28 AM   #11
New Member



 
LostxWishes's Avatar
 
Name: Stephanie
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 57
Money: -1,198
Last Online: 09-25-2010 12:27 AM




LostxWishes is on a distinguished road




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

That is my EXACT fear! That somehow we will end up almost complete strangers that dont talk, or since we both go to the same small school with only 300 people that everything would be akward.
__________________
So here's to teenage romance...
and not knowing why
it hurts like hell!
LostxWishes is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-17-2007, 03:53 AM   #12
Elite Member



 
armyforthebroken's Avatar
 
Name: Jenn
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: California
Posts: 3,184
Money: 21,880
Last Online: 10-14-2013 04:00 PM


My Mood:


armyforthebroken has a reputation beyond repute
armyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond reputearmyforthebroken has a reputation beyond repute




Send a message via MSN to armyforthebroken
Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

Well, you could wait till you feel ready to talk to him about it.
__________________
You bitches are beautiful.
armyforthebroken is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-17-2007, 04:20 AM   #13



 
Absolutely Unsure's Avatar
 
Gender: Female
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 1,188
Money: 5,694
Last Online: 06-18-2008 03:21 AM




Absolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond reputeAbsolutely Unsure has a reputation beyond repute




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

Maybe just throw in a joke about you two being "together" every once in a while and see what he says. See if he lets his hand linger a little longer than normal, stuff like that. Use your best judgement.

Good luck!

You've got it way easier though.. I love my best friends bf! ha. I'm fucked.
__________________
. : Hard Work Pays Off in the Long Run. Laziness Pays Off NOW : .

Member of the Kind of Weird Sexy Club
Absolutely Unsure is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-17-2007, 05:40 AM   #14
New Member



 
LostxWishes's Avatar
 
Name: Stephanie
Gender: Female
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: Kentucky
Posts: 57
Money: -1,198
Last Online: 09-25-2010 12:27 AM




LostxWishes is on a distinguished road




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

Thanks for tha advice! My friends throw in PLENTY of jokes about us dating, and he just kinda shrugs his shoulders. I was tlaking to him today and he said he wanted me to go to hawaii with him so he would have someone to talk to! I think I'll take that as a good sign!
__________________
So here's to teenage romance...
and not knowing why
it hurts like hell!
LostxWishes is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Old 07-17-2007, 05:50 AM   #15
Super Senior Member



 
Mattilicious's Avatar
 
Name: Matt
Gender: Male
Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: USA
Posts: 2,086
Money: 5,522
Last Online: 07-12-2010 06:55 AM




Mattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant futureMattilicious has a brilliant future




Re: In love with my Bestfriend!

I think you just have to weigh your odds and take this issue one day at a time.
Mattilicious is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiFurl this Post!
Closed Thread


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes


 
Friends and Partners



All times are GMT +6.5. The time now is 11:30 AM. Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2014, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.3.2
vBCredits v1.4 Copyright ©2007 - 2008, PixelFX Studios
Ad Management by RedTyger