A genuine plea for advice.

*Call Sign* · 11-08-2009, 11:47 PM

I'm going to sound desperate but that's because I am. I can't stress how badly I need some advice right now.

Please give me some advice on how to cope with this situation, I need help.

I waited all of the summer holidays, without any friends to talk to, waiting to go to a new boarding school, I hated it there so I quickly left, It was an awful experience and even now my parents aren't the same with me, we had to pay £6000 for 2 days.

A week later I got into an amazing school, it was perfect, it might as well have been designed for me. I went for one day, hadn't taken my medication, and I left. I can't think why I would leave, it was perfect for me, but I left, I honestly can't think of why anymore and I have regretted it everyday since...

I now have over a year of solitude in my room, till I can go back to a 6th form in 2011.

I know I deserve this, I brought it on myself, but I wasn't right in the head at the time! It's not an emo, 'oh my sorrow' ordeal its a 'wtf I don't think and react normally to situations and it's ruining my life'.

I am trying but the idea of going through a year by myself is making me go insane. What's worse, and I am not exagerating, I have no friends, literally none, for various reasons, I can honestly say I don't have a single teenage friend.

I'm so desperate right now I'm just staring at the school's website, I'm losing it and I need advice.

I know I sound like I'm whining but that's because I am, I am facing over a year alone in my room, literally! I can't do that, no one can! It makes people go insane.

I need help and advice.

meowkath · 11-24-2009, 07:16 AM

When I was going through a traumatic bout of bullying all through-out elementary and middle school, I switched after 6th grade to homeschooling. Just like you, I had no real life friends. I did absolutely FINE.

I would consider meeting people online, and there are sites/organizations to meet people in your city through websites to hang out with. You could go out somewhere and join a club to meet other teenagers as well - I don't see how you're confined.

You also don't mention to us what "medication" you're on, and for what issue. So I can't exactly provide you with the best advice. Sorry!

anti-hero · 11-24-2009, 07:20 AM

Lol meting people online is lame. Just go to the mall or places like that to meet girls.

meowkath · 11-24-2009, 08:07 AM

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Originally Posted by anti-hero

Lol meting people online is lame. Just go to the mall or places like that to meet girls.

I don't think he's talking about meeting "girls", for one.

And for two, I've had some of the most enlightening experiences with online friends - it's a nice way to see a different culture and meet people from a wide variety of places. It in no way relates to in-person friends, of course, but it's nice to have a broad choice.

Now with my big group of friends in real life, I still make time for my old online buds who also value my friendship.

It's really just what you prefer best!

anti-hero · 11-24-2009, 08:10 AM

Meeting girls is a good way to meet all types of people it makes you way more soical. You seem to have the same problems I did. Check out hypnotica's videos he really helped me. Most of your problems are in your head.

xxjulyxx · 11-25-2009, 06:57 AM

whyd u leave