Gay or not

nalter · 11-25-2009, 08:55 AM

I really really want to get my ears pierced and my parents won't let me how do i fucking convince them to let me do it. I really really want to and they won't let me and they keep saying oh its gay and shit. What do you think and how do i persaude them to let me?

Batgirl · 11-25-2009, 09:09 AM

Both ears pierced on a guy?
IMHO, definatly looks gay.

ameera-creme · 11-25-2009, 09:32 AM

one ear is okay. But i know people who have both. Yea, i have a friend who has both. But it all depends on how you look.

ANTI CONDOM · 11-25-2009, 09:55 AM

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Originally Posted by nalter

I really really want to get my ears pierced and my parents won't let me how do i fucking convince them to let me do it. I really really want to and they won't let me and they keep saying oh its gay and shit. What do you think and how do i persaude them to let me?

It is gay!

pikechu · 11-25-2009, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by ANTI CONDOM

It is gay!

omg mvp i think u just search the keyword "gay" so u can troll in all of the threads there!
but to OP, if ur parents are saying "that looks gay" its immature for them :/
i probly should not encourage u to do this, but u can always just get the piercing anyway...

Batgirl · 11-25-2009, 10:51 AM

^ I did the same thing, but with my septum piercing. Then again, the septum is the easiest thing to hide.

But it's not only your parents who will think it is gay.

jamieestarr101 · 11-25-2009, 10:57 AM

i dont think its gay at all i kno plenty of men how have both ears done i think it kinda cute

Batgirl · 11-25-2009, 10:58 AM

Why don't you get a better piercing?

jamieestarr101 · 11-25-2009, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Batgirl

Why don't you get a better piercing?

if his parents wont let him get his ear piercing wat makes u think he could get sumthing else?????

Batgirl · 11-25-2009, 11:04 AM

There are plenty hide-able piercings and if he's of age, he can get them with ID anyway, parents or not. Did I say ask for permission? No.

xNerRadx · 11-25-2009, 11:29 AM

Your parents think every gay person has an ear ring?

Goddess of Judecca · 11-25-2009, 11:59 AM

If you're fine with accepting that some people will look at you and go, "lol u luk gay!" then tell them that, and despite the reactions you may receive, you'd still very much like it done and can always just remove it if you change your mind.

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Originally Posted by xNerRadx

Your parents think every gay person has an ear ring?

Saying every gay person (guy they're saying, actually) has an earring isn't the same as saying every guy with an earring is gay.

~Maggot

CalifornianDream · 11-26-2009, 02:52 PM

How old are you?
Wait till you're a bit older, then they won't be able to stop you. I am assuming you're quite young still?
I'll admit one ear pierced on a guy looks better, but if it's both that you want, then nothing wrong with that. Its down to whatever you like at the end of the day.

meowkath · 11-28-2009, 06:38 AM

Okay, first off, there's nothing wrong with being gay, and your parents need to get over their asses.

And second of all, if you want a piercing, it's your choice - not theirs, depending upon your age. It could come off homosexual if you had two, I must admit. Most likely the reason for this is because it looks feminine and people peg gays as feminine.

Why not get one piercing? It looks sexy on most guys! GL.

CrystalColoredRainbow · 11-28-2009, 07:18 PM

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Originally Posted by nalter

I really really want to get my ears pierced and my parents won't let me how do i fucking convince them to let me do it. I really really want to and they won't let me and they keep saying oh its gay and shit. What do you think and how do i persaude them to let me?

Your parent's reaction is quite immature. What's the problem with being gay? gay is nothing more than a sexual orientation, the only way you could possibly "look gay" is by kissing another guy or doing anything of this kind with a guy. And if, like Meowkath said, your parents use "gay" as a synonym for "feminine" well, again, what is wrong with looking "feminine"? What does "feminine" even mean? Feminine and masculine are just idiotic categorisations with no real meaning. I'll go a little feministic here, but even if you're a guy, you should just act the way you want and be yourself without caring about whether your behaviour is feminine or masculine. I just hate it when people say that you shouldn't be yourself because of your sex.
I know guys with pearced ears who look really good, you know. I think you should firstly ask your parents what's their problem with homosexuality, tell them that you're straight (if you are) and say that two pearcings won't change anything about that (in case they think it will).
Though if your parents are conservatists and really have something against homosexuality or guys who choose to look slightly more "feminine" (whatever this means) then i think that you should rather wait until you're old enough to get your ears pearced without their consent.