No confidence in my looks

Actress · 02-04-2011, 12:53 AM

Hi everyone, I'm kinda new here so here it goes. I have no body confidence, I think I'm ugly and I would do anything to change my looks. I feel fat even though no doctors etc have told me I am. I want to die my hair and find make up that makes my face looks better and minimizes my flaws. And I want to dress to suit my figure. I would like advice on what colour to dye my hair, what make up would best suit me, my flaws, my best features (if I have any :L), how to dress to make me look thinner etc etc. Please help xxxx

Glamour Puss · 02-04-2011, 07:41 AM

I saw your pictures and you don't look bad. You have nice features and you're definitely not fat so there's no need to starve yourself. That's a bad weight loss technique anyway. Doesn't do you good.

As for your hair, it doesn't look bad either. It's kinda hard to see it in your pictures though so dunno.

Tanner · 02-04-2011, 07:54 AM

You're cute.

rmg126 · 02-04-2011, 08:08 AM

You're not even close to fat

Leave your hair alone too, there's nothing wrong with it.

Fashion · 02-04-2011, 08:11 AM

Well, i have to say you're definitely NOT ugly, nor fat!
You look very naturally beautiful by your pictures..
You look girly and just really pretty! Floral dresses would no doubt suit you, or what i imagine:P Really pretty clothes would suit you! Go with whatever styles of clothing/makeup you desire, even though it is difficult when you haven't got the confidence. It's surprising how confident you could feel if you went out there and bought something you really like

Mama Bear · 02-04-2011, 08:23 AM

You're cute. Don't think like that. Confidence adds to a person's attractiveness in my opinion. Try to not let the mirror and camera play tricks on you.

SMOKE. · 02-04-2011, 08:34 AM

Not to be creepy but I'd probably hit it if you were cool, stop worrying so much.
Also none of your pictures are very clear..

Esmo · 02-04-2011, 05:07 PM

You are not fat.

MoonMeeko · 02-04-2011, 07:09 PM

Aye defo not fat, I'd say dye your hair black

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Dexterace · 02-04-2011, 07:37 PM

You are pretty and definitely not fat.

Actress · 02-05-2011, 02:14 AM

thanks, I'll upload more pictures later, of less make up and more of actual me. But I need to know HOT to raise my confidence. xxx

Esmo · 02-05-2011, 02:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Actress

But I need to know HOT to raise my confidence. xxx

No you don't. Confidence doesn't come from knowing you're hot. At that point you skip confidence into arrogance. Just be comfortable with yourself and your appearance, which you should be.

Actress · 02-05-2011, 03:44 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Esmo

No you don't. Confidence doesn't come from knowing you're hot. At that point you skip confidence into arrogance. Just be comfortable with yourself and your appearance, which you should be.

oooops, I meant that to be
I need to know HOW to raise my confidence, not HOT
sorry :L

DaRkEn1316 · 02-06-2011, 04:30 AM

You look fine

And you are not fat and i do not think you look ugly.

My vote = stay as you are

Actress · 02-06-2011, 09:37 PM

Thanks, but even if I look ok I have no confidence in the way I look and I want to feel nice :L x