I do it about two-three times a day, even though I think it's completely disgusting. I want to know if there are ways to stop masturbating or perhaps ways to reduce libido. I'd really like to stop having sexual thoughts and the urge to masturbate altogether.
What are some ways to stop masturbating?
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No you just have to change your view and attitude to sexuality.
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ivaiva wrote:
No you just have to change your view and attitude to sex.
fix'd. Sexuality is the wrong word hun, that is whether you are straight, pansexual, lesbian etc. Not what you were after i think
Also, The best thing is that if you are having these erotic thoughts then this is because your hormones are triggering them alot, usually this is because you have a sperm build up. So you almost need to empty the sac as such and then they should calm down a bit. The hormone is there basically to notify you that you need to realease some semen and your brain then triggers a thought that will cause you to want to.[CENTER] [/CENTER] -
keep yourself pre-occupied with lots of other things, expecially physically exhausting things[CENTER] [/CENTER]
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Get a girlfriend to do it for you.[COLOR="black"]When I'm not fighting mountain lions for sport, I read about broken homes, teenage depression, and other such life-improving awesomeness cause I'm weird like that[/COLOR]
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If you're a teen, don't worry it's just a phase and your hormones are just acting up. You can go with it for a while or just try to reduce it to 1 or 2 times a day, that's completely healthy. I just recently got over this phase myself. I would do it 1-3 times a day sometimes more. Now I'm down to once a day or not at all. And you shouldn't be disgusted by it, it's 100% normal and healthy even (helps prevent prostate cancer!) so you should try to accept it cause you'll be doing it for the rest of your life!
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Dude, it's not "disgusting", it's normal and healthy. It should only be considered an issue if you do it compulsively and often enough that it starts to disrupt your normal routine and schedule. 2 -3 times a day is a total of what...30, 45 minutes at the most?
You'd like to stop having sexual thoughts and reduce your libido? It's called being a normal 15-year-old male.
In other words...
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masturbation is a disgusting habit. I commend you for trying to quit.
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Hipster wrote:
masturbation is a disgusting habit. I commend you for trying to quit.
What follows afterwards is a life of purity and happiness.
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Hipster wrote:
masturbation is a disgusting habit. I commend you for trying to quit.
What follows afterwards is a life of purity and happiness.
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Also, ignore this post.
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charliebi101 wrote:
fix'd. Sexuality is the wrong word hun, that is whether you are straight, pansexual, lesbian etc. Not what you were after i think
But also Human sexuality is how people experience the erotic and express themselves as sexual beings. And The term human sexuality can also cover cultural, political, legal and philosophical aspects. It may also refer to issues of morality, ethics, theology, spirituality or religion and how they relate to all things sexual. -
It's normal to want to masturbate. I do it AT LEAST twice a day. And on top of that I have sex at least 3 times a week so yeah. I'm not sure what you can do to decrease libido. Maybe look up some foods to eat or something? Just saying it's a normal part of life. Everyone has sexual thoughts and everyone masturbates. It's not gross or disgusting![CENTER]"Hollywood is a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for a kiss and fifty cents for your soul." ~Marilyn Monroe[/CENTER]
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ivaiva wrote:
But also Human sexuality is how people experience the erotic and express themselves as sexual beings. And The term human sexuality can also cover cultural, political, legal and philosophical aspects. It may also refer to issues of morality, ethics, theology, spirituality or religion and how they relate to all things sexual.
Wow, i honestly didn't know this is an actual definition. So thank you. and sorry if that sounds sarcastic because it is not meant to be
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Why do you want to become asexual? That makes no sense at all. Enjoy your sex drive, embrace it. It's part of you and no matter how hard you try, you can't change it. Just learn to accept it, everyone does it, it's completely natural. I went through a phase myself around the time I started masturbating at 10-12, where I thought it was perverted and gross. But I learnt that it was normal, and it's really hard to stop masturbating, bearing in mind that at our age we have an insane libido and hormones.
What your trying to do is futile and pointless, just enjoy it, you a pretty much depriving yourself of fun, due to his stupid notion you have in your head.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] -
Asexual is when you aren't attracted to either sex. What is your reason for doing this? I'm just curious.
You can't make yourself asexual, just like you can't make yourself any other sexual orientation.[CENTER]"Hollywood is a place where they'll pay you a thousand dollars for a kiss and fifty cents for your soul." ~Marilyn Monroe[/CENTER] -
To answer why I want to become asexual- I suffer from involuntary celibacy. It'd be hard for me to attract anyone...and I don't want to spend the rest of my life worrying about not having sex/dying a virgin. Being asexual would mean that I have no sex drive and therefore wouldn't be worried about it all that much. And although I couldn't just turn asexual- there ARE ways I could eliminate my sex drive but it'd be kindy risky.
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What do you mean by involuntarily celibate? Could you clarify on what is happening?
And I'm going to say it now, your not going to be able to destroy your sex drive. And you would have to be fucking insane to contemplate self castration, and if you are, I recommend seeing a mental health professional as you are a risk to your own health.[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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