Me and my girlfriend are completely clean with drugs. I plan to never do them, but my girlfriend thinks differently.
She recently told me she wants to try pot. She says she wants to try it once "just to see what its like." This crushed me. Thats one thing I liked about her. That she didn't need them and could be happy without them.
She says she swears to do it once and stop. But shes had some problems before with drinking. She once forgot me completely thats how drunk she was. Shes stopped that and thats a thing of the past. But I worry the same thing will happen. I worry once she finds a place to do it, she'll over do it again.
But heres my problem when I said I would look at her differently, and not like her as much, she started getting mad. Saying it would be only once and never again and that it wasn't right for me to get all upset over. That she'd never do it again. etc.. But I can see her getting hooked and I don't want that happening.
Is it bad for me to start not liking her as much because of this, because I think i will.
She recently told me she wants to try pot. She says she wants to try it once "just to see what its like." This crushed me. Thats one thing I liked about her. That she didn't need them and could be happy without them.
She says she swears to do it once and stop. But shes had some problems before with drinking. She once forgot me completely thats how drunk she was. Shes stopped that and thats a thing of the past. But I worry the same thing will happen. I worry once she finds a place to do it, she'll over do it again.
But heres my problem when I said I would look at her differently, and not like her as much, she started getting mad. Saying it would be only once and never again and that it wasn't right for me to get all upset over. That she'd never do it again. etc.. But I can see her getting hooked and I don't want that happening.
Is it bad for me to start not liking her as much because of this, because I think i will.
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