i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

    • i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      a boy i like but i do not want to lose virginity with him but i like flirting myself.
      is it ok to wear no bra with my loose top and be a little risky with my clothes around him?
      it feels nice when he looks up my skirt (lol) when we sit in his room for homework.
      just like to flirt :)
      my gf said its wrong but she never goes with boys anyway.

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      no it's not. guys don't like wasting our time, you either are in or you are out. if you are going to flirt we are going to assume you are down; especially if you are dressing like that (mother of god soo hot)
      don't lead people on, we have better things to do. if you are going to do this atleast make it known that you are not interested in sex.

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      endgame wrote:

      no it's not. guys don't like wasting our time, you either are in or you are out. if you are going to flirt we are going to assume you are down; especially if you are dressing like that (mother of god soo hot)
      don't lead people on, we have better things to do. if you are going to do this atleast make it known that you are not interested in sex.


      when you say sex do you mean sex or?
      because i think i will be ok if he does some things down my top or skirt, just not "it".
      he has to have his door open his parents said.
      but sometimes his mum is far away and on the phone so we can hear her and no the phone is not cordless :hugs:
      anyway its christmas holidays now so no homework sessions but he invited me for videogames later day :)

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    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      endgame wrote:

      well as long as you guys are doing some stuff it should be ok. but guys being guys he will want to go all the way.

      i thought at first you said you weren't going to even touch the guy. that would of been just plain mean:p


      i do not want my virginity to be taken but i think the less clothes i wear the more i feel like his hands are needed lol.
      funny how our clothes can make our feelings happen :rofl:

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      bella7 wrote:

      i do not want my virginity to be taken but i think the less clothes i wear the more i feel like his hands are needed lol.
      funny how our clothes can make our feelings happen :rofl:


      I like your style. but realize that the longer you put off sex with him... in time he will see you as just as cock-tease and just move on. so be prepared

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      dire wrote:

      Go ahead and wear as little as you feel comfortable wearing. Then figure out what your limits are and ask him to respect those.


      i wear a regular dress in front of my mum when i leave but i undo it before i get to his home so my clothes are smaller for him :0

      endgame wrote:

      I like your style. but realize that the longer you put off sex with him... in time he will see you as just as cock-tease and just move on. so be prepared


      thanks i love fashion!
      what if we touch eachothers laps , is that still a c-tease?

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      endgame wrote:



      that's flirting, so yes it is. its implying that you want what's down there.


      oh :(

      dire wrote:

      If you're willing to get him off without going all the way (touching, licking, w/e) that's not cock teasing and it's probably still letting you keep your virginity, right?

      If it becomes a real issue you can talk to him about anal.


      yep keep fresh.

      maybe :s

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      dire wrote:

      The main thing to take away is play safe and have fun. I'm sure he'll let you know what he wants. Remember to clearly tell him what your limits are and make sure he respects them.

      It sounds like you're all set to have a great time.


      thanks i will say my limits :wink:

      yep because last year i never thought about boys much but this year when i am around boys i have symptoms like crazy :0

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      endgame wrote:

      Dire has got the right of it. as long as you two are clear with what your intentions are it is all good. I just didn't want to have some poor guy be led on or you be emotionally distraught if he stops hanging out if he doesn't get what he is looking for.

      play it safe and go for it!


      your right i just realised i saw his pants have erections so i agree its best to be clear :)

    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      bella7 wrote:

      a boy i like but i do not want to lose virginity with him but i like flirting myself.
      is it ok to wear no bra with my loose top and be a little risky with my clothes around him?
      it feels nice when he looks up my skirt (lol) when we sit in his room for homework.
      just like to flirt :)
      my gf said its wrong but she never goes with boys anyway.


      For sure you might try to flirt like you like; just be sure about his behavior... You may add a "safe" word to stop playing in the case you are going too far... Anyway, it's always somewhat risky!:wink:

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      bella7 wrote:

      your right i just realised i saw his pants have erections so i agree its best to be clear :)



      don't lead him on and be a tease, what you're talking about is beyond harmless flirting haha
      atleast be clear in telling him you don't want to lose your virginity but you want to wear promiscuous clothing alone with him and talk about his erections online.. for real haha

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    • Re: i like a guy but only want to flirt is it ok?

      ari96hot wrote:

      For sure you might try to flirt like you like; just be sure about his behavior... You may add a "safe" word to stop playing in the case you are going too far... Anyway, it's always somewhat risky!:wink:


      smart idea! :D

      Eli Haha wrote:

      don't lead him on and be a tease, what you're talking about is beyond harmless flirting haha
      atleast be clear in telling him you don't want to lose your virginity but you want to wear promiscuous clothing alone with him and talk about his erections online.. for real haha


      but its odd to me how guys care about the triangle of panties. lots of boys saw mine as my skirts are short and if i sit down like with crossed legs it shows but its not like i wish to sleep with all boys :o

      absolutely will tell :)