Do people still value foreplay?

    • Do people still value foreplay?

      I just watched a video discussing if foreplay was dead and if this generation considers foreplay to be a valuable part of the sexual experience.

      It is an interesting question and one that I have not thought of. I remember that when I first started having sex with my girlfriend at the time, around the third session, I wanted the actual penetration to occur quicker. We would go through about five minutes of making out and then I would start to undress her and from there it progressed. After that, there really was no more foreplay. It was a few kisses then BAM! straight to sex.

      If a couple is just starting out in a relationship (they mention this in the video), then foreplay may become boring because you know what the other person is going to do.

      Does anyone have thoughts on this? If anyone on here is in a long time relationship, do you and your partner still have foreplay? If so, is it a main part of your sexual experience or do you just gloss over and go straight to the pounding?

      Here's the video in case any of you are interested:      [ame='http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-J86J-r8u8U']Is Foreplay DEAD?! - YouTube[/ame]

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      I'd personally have to say foreplay is the most important (and arguably the most fun) part of sex and usually lasts longer than the actual sex itself, at least for me (damn self control). I've been in this relationship for 7 months and don't go 3 days without having sex, and there's always a lot of foreplay, so in my case it's certainly not dead.
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      I agree i beleive forplays not dead ive been with my boyfriend for 6 months and i love foreplay more being able to please a guy is what i love and he can please me at the end of the day anyone can stick something in a hole its the foreplay that makes u more attracted to each other and is such a tease for females so yer go foreplay !!

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      I don't understand how anyone can just go straight into it. Foreplay builds up passion, attraction and most certainly raises the sensation throughout in my opinion.

      I feel that jumping straight in would be... well, like something rushed and without meaning, or lacking value.
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    • Re: Do people still value foreplay?

      Ttny wrote:

      I'd personally have to say foreplay is the most important (and arguably the most fun) part of sex and usually lasts longer than the actual sex itself...


      Yes it is. Foreplay arouses both partners and the physical connection involved is beneficial towards relationship.
      "You use your heart as a weapon, and it hurts like Heaven."

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      There are certainly many times that I want to get straight to sex. But keep in mind, foreplay can come in many forms: being at work all day thinking about how I'm going to get rammed by my partner when I get home - that's a type of foreplay. So while our sexual encounter may be "hi, what's up? Stick your cock in me." that doesn't mean that "foreplay is dead." Not to mention, there are some times that we don't have sex, that we will only stick to foreplay (as in, we don't penetrate, our sexual encounter will consist of just oral or manual sex).

      But, I honestly could not care less what other people involve in their sex life. Foreplay or not, if they're happy and satisfied that's all that matters. It seems silly to feel the need to stick to some ritual (foreplay) for no reason other than we think we "should".

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      I value it, that's sure
      Guys tend to rush things and be impatient - it's easy for you you are ready when your penis is hard and you know 99% that you'll come during sex
      For girls it's not liek that so be nice and give your girl an orgasm and then have intercourse - you'll cum, don't worry
      And it's better with more foreplay

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      Foreplay is definitely not dead. There are times I'm sure with most people when he just jump into bed and get straight down to business and as much as that is still great nothing beats taking your time to stimulate every part of the girls body and give it the attention that it deserves. And of course receiving the same in return! :)

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      A good pleasure of sex can only be experienced when both partner have orgasm together.
      man gets on quickly and women take time,
      foreplay stimulate the women to the verge when they become restless and beg for further advancement, thus both partners attain their orgasm together.
      otherwise men will finish early leaving his partner mid way.
      therefore foreplay is essntial part of sex.

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      :wink:

      TressaMarie wrote:

      I love foreplay sometimes more than the sex, there are sometimes when we can't get to the actual sex and just having some great foreplay can get me off



      My sentiments exactly! Don't get me wrong, there are times when a quickie is just what you need but to me, the foreplay, the kissing, the touching, the teasing, the licking, sucking and nibbling...Maybe it's romantic Italian in me...but foreplay is the best!

      :wink:

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      monika wrote:

      A good pleasure of sex can only be experienced when both partner have orgasm together.
      man gets on quickly and women take time,
      foreplay stimulate the women to the verge when they become restless and beg for further advancement, thus both partners attain their orgasm together.
      otherwise men will finish early leaving his partner mid way.
      therefore foreplay is essntial part of sex.




      What?
      1st no not true, orgasm doesn't have to happen in the same time
      2n if one finishes before other he/she (usuall he) doesn't have to be selfish, instead he should satisfy a girl too

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      Foreplay is a must I was raped when I was younger and I no longer can produce some much needed things to have intercourse. Foreplay helps those body parts start working and I can't get off during intercourse if there is no foreplay beforehand. Foreplay can be the hottest part in having sex as long as you put some effort into it.

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      laney wrote:

      Foreplay is a must I was raped when I was younger and I no longer can produce some much needed things to have intercourse. Foreplay helps those body parts start working and I can't get off during intercourse if there is no foreplay beforehand. Foreplay can be the hottest part in having sex as long as you put some effort into it.


      I am sorry to hear that you were raped...that must make trust a tough thing for you.