it isnt when you consider what kind of person she is. i just think we'd be better of without her. i dont think anyone would understand unless they actually knew her.
you never met your grandparents?
as for my sister, i just had a big fight with my parents. i asked about her and they got mad and started yelling at me... that told me it was true. there's no other explanation. i also found out some other stuff. it all points to that... still seems unreal though. :/
but enough about me. how are you? =)