I'm pregnant ):

[xkneecole]

Honey I know exactly how you feel, I am currently in a pregnancy scare right now, I still need to take a test.

Get an abortion. I know people are against it and I know it's emotionally taxing and risky but in all honesty, you have so much left to give to the world before you raise a child. Don't let this ruin your life. Children can be beautiful gifts at the right moment but right now you're not stable enough to raise one. You don't have to even go to a clinic and get surgery anymore. You can just take a pill and force a miscarriage. It'll be traumatic and hard but you need to.

That's just my opinion.

[Alan21]

Originally Posted by xkneecole

Honey I know exactly how you feel, I am currently in a pregnancy scare right now, I still need to take a test.

Get an abortion. I know people are against it and I know it's emotionally taxing and risky but in all honesty, you have so much left to give to the world before you raise a child. Don't let this ruin your life. Children can be beautiful gifts at the right moment but right now you're not stable enough to raise one. You don't have to even go to a clinic and get surgery anymore. You can just take a pill and force a miscarriage. It'll be traumatic and hard but you need to.

That's just my opinion.

yeah go ahead and kill another baby or snuff out another life becasue of your irresponibilty, stupidity an/or immorality. hey, everyone else is doing it, right?

[EmCeePurpleMee]

It's a sin of aborting a baby, it's a gift to the world you know!
I have a classmate who is 14 or 15 when she get pregnant, but she chose to let it live and just continue her studies after bringing it out of her stomach..

It's your choice to take care of it, or let another couple adopt it..
You decided to do it with your boyfriend, and because you guys didn't use any protection, that's the final result. Having a baby..

I would refer to take care of the baby myself, and would be happy if the boyfriend would stand as a father..

So first, you should discuss this whole thing with your BF and decide if what's the better thing to do.

The final decision and the life of your baby lies in your hands..

[xkneecole]

Originally Posted by Alan21

yeah go ahead and kill another baby or snuff out another life becasue of your irresponibilty, stupidity an/or immorality. hey, everyone else is doing it, right?

Hey, I bet you're saying that to all of the women who accidentally miscarry too. I bet this baby would be extremely happy growing up and living on welfare because her mom never got the chance to go to college, or even graduate high school. Adoption is always an option, a stupid one. The adoption system is not one you want a "precious gift" stuck in. Passed around from home to home, never being settled, sometimes abused.

Getting an abortion isn't like sticking a knife in your vagina and brutally murdering a child. It's removing the liner of your uterus so you miscarry. The word "kill" is so harsh and if that were the case, all females who get abortions would be charged with homicide.


Also, thank you for the bad rep because you disagree with my opinion. I'm not a slut, I've only ever had one partner and we generally use protection. Judgmental comments aren't necessary from some anonymous user on an internet forum. Thanks.

[Alan21]

[QUOTE=xkneecole;1062955216]Hey, I bet you're saying that to all of the women who accidentally miscarry too. I bet this baby would be extremely happy growing up and living on welfare because her mom never got the chance to go to college, or even graduate high school. Adoption is always an option, a stupid one. The adoption system is not one you want a "precious gift" stuck in. Passed around from home to home, never being settled, sometimes abused.

Getting an abortion isn't like sticking a knife in your vagina and brutally murdering a child. It's removing the liner of your uterus so you miscarry. The word "kill" is so harsh and if that were the case, all females who get abortions would be charged with homicide.


Ok, sorry i called you a slut in private. it wasn't nice of me to do that and to make it public is not something i would do. I don't care what decisions YOU have made for yourself. what i care about is the "advice" you have given to someone else on here. it is my opinion that it is ill-advised and comes from someone who hasn’t made very good decisions. what i believe is that every decision a person makes has some effect on another person, whether it's good or bad. i think your decision to offer poor advice based on what YOU would do basically stinks. the best advice comes from someone who learns from their mistakes. It is my opinion that your advice in offering an option to delete the consequence of a mistake, i.e., kill an unborn baby, is wrong. that is unfortunate but too common. it is also my “opinion” that wise advice based on someone’s own bad decisions is not just an “opinion" but may be useful to someone who asks for it. my advice to the girl is to go ahead and give birth to the baby and give it up for adoption to someone who will take care of it and who will love it and consider it a gift from God. this is of course only my opinion, and comes from the stupid decisions i've made in MY life.

[xkneecole]

[quote=Alan21;1062955600]

Originally Posted by xkneecole

Hey, I bet you're saying that to all of the women who accidentally miscarry too. I bet this baby would be extremely happy growing up and living on welfare because her mom never got the chance to go to college, or even graduate high school. Adoption is always an option, a stupid one. The adoption system is not one you want a "precious gift" stuck in. Passed around from home to home, never being settled, sometimes abused.

Getting an abortion isn't like sticking a knife in your vagina and brutally murdering a child. It's removing the liner of your uterus so you miscarry. The word "kill" is so harsh and if that were the case, all females who get abortions would be charged with homicide.


Ok, sorry i called you a slut in private. it wasn't nice of me to do that and to make it public is not something i would do. I don't care what decisions YOU have made for yourself. what i care about is the "advice" you have given to someone else on here. it is my opinion that it is ill-advised and comes from someone who hasn’t made very good decisions. what i believe is that every decision a person makes has some effect on another person, whether it's good or bad. i think your decision to offer poor advice based on what YOU would do basically stinks. the best advice comes from someone who learns from their mistakes. It is my opinion that your advice in offering an option to delete the consequence of a mistake, i.e., kill an unborn baby, is wrong. that is unfortunate but too common. it is also my “opinion” that wise advice based on someone’s own bad decisions is not just an “opinion" but may be useful to someone who asks for it. my advice to the girl is to go ahead and give birth to the baby and give it up for adoption to someone who will take care of it and who will love it and consider it a gift from God. this is of course only my opinion, and comes from the stupid decisions i've made in MY life.

I'm assuming with the name Alan you're a male and you have never had to experience the fear and regret you feel once you realize you're pregnant. I don't expect you to, but as a male, you shouldn't offer a woman advice on how to handle her pregnancy if, by your standards stated above, you haven't experienced it yourself. Adoption would be a beautiful solution if it was actually realistic.

Why am I not allowed to tell the girl what I would do? That's what advice is. Of course I have my best interest in mind, therefore I have her best interest in mind. I don't expect a male to understand any of this because he isn't ever forced to face the consequences of his bad decisions in the bedroom.

[xkneecole]

[quote=Heather;1062955817]

Originally Posted by xkneecole

You act like men don't experience anything from a woman aborting a child. Sigh... what exactly are your experiences with pregnancy?

They do, I know they do, ultimately they don't make the decision though. It all comes down to the female. The fact of the matter is that he told me that I had no reason to offer this girl advice because I had an opinion on the matter and have made bad decisions myself. I rebutted with the fact that he hasn't had any experience with the problem, which is less than that of myself and therefore, by his logic, is less qualified to give her advice because he is SOLELY basing this off of what he thinks.

My experiences are similar to the OP, I've run in with the issue of abortion or adoption and I'm currently deciding while also waiting to see if I'm truly pregnant. I'm in the same state of mind as the OP, so I thought I should let her know I'm on the same boat and what I am going to do. Ill-advised, as Alan would say.

It didn't help that he private messaged me and called me a slut because he personally has never had sex and has never had a pregnancy scare.

But, like always, the tussle between prochoice and prolife is always a circle and never goes anywhere. I was just stating my opinion for the OP who so desperately needs as many opinions as she can get.

[**Amb_91**]

Originally Posted by V1NC3

I'm sorry, I know a lot of people are against abortion but if you don't get one, you're entire life will be over. Your relationship with other people and possibly family will be screwed up, you won't be able to accomplish anything, and your child will have to live a miserable life because you're going to have no money, you won't be responsible enough to take care of him/her, and chances are, he won't grow up with his biological father for the rest of his life. You're doing the right thing and no matter what people tell you, it's NOT selfish for many reasons

I technically can't tell you what's right and what's wrong though because it's your choice and your life, not mine. Just think and do what you feel is best

Erm that's not true, in any way shape or form!!!

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Originally Posted by TonightBelongsToHIM

I'm really worried. I am only 17 so I feel that I can't carry on the pregnancy because there are so many things i want to do first. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, so its not as though it was a one night thing, but it would still feel wrong for me to bring the baby into my world just yet as I have nothing to give it disnow. Am I doing the right thing by choosing to get an abortion? I really need some thoughts, thank you

what have you decided to do hun?

[BethanylikestoBabble]

I'm not gonna lie hun I am the most against abortion person you will EVER come accross.
If you really don't think you can have the baby now, then you know I respect that because you probably can't provide for it properly yet .. but maybe you have a really supportive family?

Or there's always adoption, people tend to forget about adoption .. and I'm pretty sure there's some sort of adoption where you can still see the baby, obviously not whenever you please you have to sort it out with the foster parents, but then you can be known as like an aunt or something!
But yeah

Don't abort

[Sad Sunshine]

Originally Posted by TonightBelongsToHIM

I'm really worried. I am only 17 so I feel that I can't carry on the pregnancy because there are so many things i want to do first. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, so its not as though it was a one night thing, but it would still feel wrong for me to bring the baby into my world just yet as I have nothing to give it disnow. Am I doing the right thing by choosing to get an abortion? I really need some thoughts, thank you

Next time DO NOT let him cum in ur pussy. That will solve the problem. Let us know how it works out...

Sunshine!!

[Dark Universe]

Don't kill, let your baby live. Your parents can help you out. God made you a mother, so be one. My cousin thougt she couldn't take care of her child, until he was born, everthing ended up okay. Don't worry, once it's born rethink. And baby needs a chance in life. And it starts with the parents. Family comes first.

[alexandaar]

Originally Posted by Spaztrocity

Abortion= killing. Would you be happy knowing that your first child was killed?

Id love to hit you in the face right now.

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Originally Posted by Alan21

yeah go ahead and kill another baby or snuff out another life becasue of your irresponibilty, stupidity an/or immorality. hey, everyone else is doing it, right?

dont use the word 'Kill', and if your not going to say anything that will speak sense dont say anything at all.

[Encoreliber]

I think an abortion would be best but it is your life...Do what you wish.

[Sad Sunshine]

Originally Posted by Dark Universe

Don't kill, let your baby live. Your parents can help you out. God made you a mother, so be one. My cousin thougt she couldn't take care of her child, until he was born, everthing ended up okay. Don't worry, once it's born rethink. And baby needs a chance in life. And it starts with the parents. Family comes first.

Hi slut! Stop giving me negative reputation points! You're probably some hick that lives out West. I'm a NY'er; so deal with my directness; or don't read...

OK fucko??

Sunshine!

[Dark Sojourn]

Originally Posted by Sad Sunshine

Hi slut! Stop giving me negative reputation points! You're probably some hick that lives out West. I'm a NY'er; so deal with my directness; or don't read...

OK fucko??

Sunshine!

^Sensitive