I'm pregnant ):

[Kimer94]

Originally Posted by Spaztrocity

Abortion= killing. Would you be happy knowing that your first child was killed?

I agree with this. Also, think about the fact that you can give the baby up for adoption. You don't have to keep it. That's why there's such thing as adoption. There's so many people who can't have children who would LOVE to have your baby. Just think about that. But this is ultimately your decision! Good luck!

[MoreLikeKimmy]

Do what you feel is right. My friends mum had her at 15, and everything worked out fine. But its your life, and you do what you feel is best for the child. If you don't want to go through the pain or put it up for adoption, take an abortion.

Its your choice and if nobody agrees with your choice, ignore them, its your life.

[Mana]

Originally Posted by V1NC3

I'm sorry, I know a lot of people are against abortion but if you don't get one, you're entire life will be over. Your relationship with other people and possibly family will be screwed up, you won't be able to accomplish anything, and your child will have to live a miserable life because you're going to have no money, you won't be responsible enough to take care of him/her, and chances are, he won't grow up with his biological father for the rest of his life. You're doing the right thing and no matter what people tell you, it's NOT selfish for many reasons

If this was true, the human race would've died out. How does becoming a parent mean your life will be over? If anything it opens up so many more paths and experiences in life that are incredibly rewarding. This is such a ridiculous point of view. I'm currently expecting my first child and my life is far from "over". If anything its just beginning, I have a whole amazing future ahead of me that I never had before

To the OP, the decision is yours, but don't make any rash decisions you might regret. I know there's a lot of people such as the person I quoted above saying "you'll never accomplish anything" but this isn't true. Think of the millions of mothers in this world, they're not all miserable individuals who spend the rest of their lives stuck at home with a crying baby. They live their lives and are happy Just make sure you've considered all areas of the subject before you come to your final decision.

[Sweetie123]

Keep it

[Eminemaniac]

I agree that at 17 raising a baby is not a good idea. You obviously have ambitions and this shouldn't get in the way. BBut abortion isn't your only option if you're not 100% comfortable with that either - would you maybe consider putting it up for adoption? Then at least you're giving it a chance.

[monika]

Go for abortion, and be careful next time.

[jamiecat]

Hey TonightBelongstoHIM:

I don't know what you decided as some time has passed since you posted.

I know you must be going through a really hard time emotionally. It is normal to feel scared about being a mom.

I know some posters have said that it doesn't matter because the baby cannot feel pain, but we aren't human beings because we can feel pain. There are even people who live their whole lives unable to feel pain because of a disorder, but they are still people because they are human beings.

All human beings are created in God's image and that is why he says you should not harm another person. This applies to babies in the womb, because their unique DNA makes them human beings from conception.

Did you know that there is real help available to you AND your baby? There are places that can help you get financial aid, nutrition programs, government subsidized daycare and baby items. There are people who care about you and don't want to see you broken after an abortion, for many women realize that they murdered their baby after the fact and they regret it forever.

Please know that if you went ahead with the abortion, that Jesus died for sinners on the Cross. We ALL need forgiveness. Jesus said that even if you are angry at someone you have murdered them in your heart. I am a murderer, but God forgave me through Jesus. He is offering this to you today as well.

If you are pregnant and need help, or if you had an abortion and want someone to talk to, please get in touch with these people. They care about women and want to help however they can:

Hand of Hope Community
National Helpline: (760)2-EXPECT

Love to you! <3

[EmilyJade101]

pregancy can be the greatest feeling in the world, that is if your ready. if you feel abortion is wrong adoption is always an option. if you feel like you are going to carry the baby, than that is great too. its all about how u feel, not how we. oyu should of been on protection if you were not ready, though.

[FunSized]

This is not something you should be asking 'strangers' advice on. I know it's probaly hard because you keep changing your mind about what you want to do but this is probaly something you and your partner should discuss and decide. I'm sure the decision you make will be the right one.

[The bombest]

And people don't realize what the main thing about sex is. good luck in life. that's all i gotta say.

[ANTI CONDOM]

THIS THREAD IS OLD, BUT SHE BETTER HAD DONE THE ABRORTION.

LESSON TO ALL THE BROADS OUT THERE.

SAY NO TO CONDOMS. SAY YES TO BIRTH CONTROL PILLS!

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[xxemobladexx]

**its spelled abortion**
and your really rude

[Megs]

^^ it's spelled you're**

[Shonna]

There's nothing wrong with abortion. Go for it.
Better than leaving your kid to the mercy of the adoption system where people shop for kids the same way they shop for cars.

[Hann.]

Abortion would be the best thing imo.