my 13yo brother made his girlfriend pregnant :(

[Orangehatboyy]

Parents are going to be sad?
Are you sure about that?
I would go with them being mad, seems about right.

[tinsleteen]

If the girlfriend IS really pregnant and decides to keep the baby, your parents should demand a DNA test just to make sure that it is your brothers.

No way can a 13 and a 14 year old raise a kid and its not fair to expect either set of parents to do it either.

I'm 16 and can't imagine having a kid. I have a job that pays $7.22 an hour and it barely pays for gas in my car and a night to the movies once a week. I think I read somewhere that it costs like $600,000 to properly raise a kid today. That might include college, but wow! Like I said, I can't imagine.

Kids should not be having sex because they cant be responsible for the outcome. IMO.

[Notamerican]

Originally Posted by tinsleteen

Kids should not be having sex because they cant be responsible for the outcome. IMO.

Or, if teens are, be smart about it. I hate to be mean about it, but they get what they give. Use common sense. The pill is cheap! Condoms are cheap!

[pikechu]

Originally Posted by tinsleteen

I'm 16 and can't imagine having a kid. I have a job that pays $7.22 an hour and it barely pays for gas in my car and a night to the movies once a week. I think I read somewhere that it costs like $600,000 to properly raise a kid today. That might include college, but wow! Like I said, I can't imagine.

i don't know anything about american money but this thread is old, it's over now.

[Emma1]

OMFG 13 is way too bloody young! Who gives a crap what happens over there and what happens here, it doesnt change the fact that 13 is too young. Omg he's still a kid...a child thats just revolting.

sorry but you need to face reality if you think 13 is a normal age

[mario_128]

I so wish i was german

[libra baby]

Originally Posted by Neal

Guinness world record youngest father? 14.

idk what the Guinness world records say, but the world's youngest parents are either 8&9 or 9&10, and lived in China in 1910.

[crazy_drummer]

If ur parents nd her parents r comfortable wit helping to raise the child I think that would b the best option.

i got 4girls preggers in the past they all had abortions and now i have a beautiful daughter named Chloe from my last relationship i was and still am a young dad, Chloe will b 2yrs old next march. its a eye opener how much effort thats n looking after a child especially when u have ur own

if ur bro had sex at 13 nd new what he was doingg he should b able 2 deal wit the conquecenses ie: a child.

u have 2 look at wat his gf wants 2 though it takes 2, so its both of their decisions nd both parents decions on wat 2 do, not just his.

i wouldnt put abortion as a option, because both ur bro and his gf need to know what the conqucenses r and an abortion is justt an easy way out theyll learn nothing thatt way.

hope this helped n someway good luck

[nothing11111]

Why do they do that?!?! Kids should not have sex protected or unprotected!!!!!! IM 13 and i know it bad idea to have sex at my age. You should wait till your 17 or so.