my 13yo brother made his girlfriend pregnant :(

pikechu · 04-03-2009, 04:51 PM

he told me today that his girlfriend says she is pregnant i was so angry

befor u say he is too young for sex becos he is 13...where we live all kids do it at this age so i know he is doing it with her but i didn't think he would be unsafe.
we are both 13, almost 14 and she is 14, my parents will be so sad and her parents too. what are they supposed to do???

i know he will try to pretend it is not happening so i need to help him!

becos it is legal here to have sex at 14, her parents cant do anything right?? my brohter is younger than her

Chris! · 04-03-2009, 04:54 PM

Well, for one, I am 13, and have had sex with my girlfriend. So I'm not going to say he's too young. But tell him he is a dumbass for not using protection, which I for one use every single time.

Just_A_Dude · 04-03-2009, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by nenafan

he told me today that his girlfriend says she is pregnant i was so angry

befor u say he is too young for sex becos he is 13...where we live all kids do it at this age so i know he is doing it with her but i didn't think he would be unsafe.
we are both 13, almost 14 and she is 14, my parents will be so sad and her parents too. what are they supposed to do???

So what if all the kids are doing it around there? Peer pressure is never okay. 13 is too young to be having sex. And if he isn't responsible enough to wear protection, he obviously isn't responsible enough to be having sex. I'm not trying to insult anyone, but unless you are trying to have kids, you're an idiot to not use a condom.

He and his girlfriend must let each pair of parents know. No getting around that.
Your brother and his girlfriend must tell them, they're the ones who did it after all. You shouldn't be tied into this in any way. He has to take responsibility for his own actions. I hope they learn a very valuable lesson from this. Sadly, chances are, they wont.

Chris! · 04-03-2009, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_A_Dude

I'm not trying to insult anyone, but unless you are trying to have kids, you're an idiot to not use a condom

What if you're poor? Haha, some people can't afford 75 cents to go to a gas station restroom.

That's a knee-slapper.

Just_A_Dude · 04-03-2009, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Skye

What if you're poor? Haha, some people can't afford 75 cents to go to a gas station restroom.

That's a knee-slapper.

No, actually, that's retarded....

Chris! · 04-03-2009, 05:18 PM

It's actually called sarcasm, but call it what you'd like!

Just_A_Dude · 04-03-2009, 05:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Skye

It's actually called sarcasm, but call it what you'd like!

Oh no, that's not what I meant. Sorry.

I realize it's sarcasm, but we're obviously dealing with someone who isn't quite as intelligent as we are. They might actually take you seriously...

pikechu · 04-03-2009, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_A_Dude

Your brother and his girlfriend must tell them, they're the ones who did it after all. You shouldn't be tied into this in any way. He has to take responsibility for his own actions.

i know but me and him are very close and i worry 4 him, i know he will close up and try to ignore it which is not the answer

Just_A_Dude · 04-03-2009, 05:30 PM

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Originally Posted by nenafan

i know but me and him are very close and i worry 4 him, i know he will close up and try to ignore it which is not the answer

Well, you should worry for him, you're his sister after all!

I'm just saying this isn't your problem. Convince your brother to confess to both party's parents. It's better to tell the truth now than it is for everyone to find out 3 months later when his girlfriend's belly starts to get noticeably bigger...

pikechu · 04-03-2009, 05:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Just_A_Dude

Well, you should worry for him, you're his sister after all!

i'm not a girl

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Originally Posted by Just_A_Dude

Oh no, that's not what I meant. Sorry.

I realize it's sarcasm, but we're obviously dealing with someone who isn't quite as intelligent as we are. They might actually take you seriously...

i know what sarcasm is, just becos my english isnt good u dont need to call me unintelligent

Just_A_Dude · 04-03-2009, 05:47 PM

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Originally Posted by nenafan

i'm not a girl

Oh darn, I'm sorry. My mind must have wandered off into oblivion when I was typing that. I've been up all night, it's not good for you!

Teen1993 · 04-03-2009, 05:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Skye

What if you're poor? Haha, some people can't afford 75 cents to go to a gas station restroom.

That's a knee-slapper.

Health clinics give them out for free.

[♥] Meow [♥] · 04-03-2009, 06:08 PM

I have a kid, im 19. way too young but 13 and 14.. thats almost impossible.. no way are they gonna survive looking after a baby. sounds so harsh but she needs to think about abortion or adoption. its really hard raising a child especially when your still a kid yourself. hope they make the right decision.

Just_A_Dude · 04-03-2009, 06:10 PM

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Originally Posted by nenafan

i know what sarcasm is, just becos my english isnt good u dont need to call me unintelligent

I didn't mean you're unintelligent at all, and especially not because you don't speak good English. You are not the one who was having unprotected sex.

I just meant that some people may think (seeing how the internet thinks in general) that not being able to afford a condom is a viable reason not to use one, which it isn't.

You either wear a condom, or don't have sex. There is no in between unless you're trying to get someone pregnant.

pikechu · 04-03-2009, 08:25 PM

ok :/