Friendzone.

[(8)jaseyrae<3]

Okay, I've known this guy for around 18 months now, he's like my best mate.
I've started to like him as more than a friend...
Problem is, I'm pretty sure our relationship is friendzoned - How can I change that?
I can't just *tell* him I like him, as it'd ruin our friendship completely.
Please help. Tips on getting out of the friendzone?

[MyLifeAsKaitlin]

Flirt. I know that sounds silly, but he'll notice. Once he notices he'll know that you have feeling for him and he'll start to think about how he feels about you. That also doesn't put pressure on him to decide how he feels if you just come out and tell him. Hope that helped!

[GibsonLesPaul]

Does he like anyone at the moment? If you don't know, ask him. Just drop subtle hints!

[(8)jaseyrae<3]

Thankyou for your help, yeah that makes sense
You see, because we're really quite close and we do flirt, I can't figure out if he likes me or not. In the past he's always told me who he liked, and I'd always told him. More recently we've got closer, yet he hasn't told me who he likes in quite a long while.. Argh I'm not sure :L

[imless]

Maybe he likes you but he cannot tell it yet OR both of you have the same problem, confused if you like him too.

[(8)jaseyrae<3]

Wow, posted this quite a long while ago, there is now a completely new thread surrounding this topic, the same guy. Oh dear :L

imless I really hope that's the case, thanks

[WearAngels]

Originally Posted by imless

Maybe he likes you but he cannot tell it yet OR both of you have the same problem, confused if you like him too.

I totally agree . He is also afraid that if he would choose to confront, you maybe get through with your friendzone. Just let the time discover what does he really felt for you or maybe give him a chance to build a foundation to be out with confusion for him to be able to conclude that he really do feel the same way.