OK, I don't usually need it, but I need advice.
So my girlfriend (we started about December 2011, it wasn't official) is really great to me in so many ways, and I really love her, so much. She says she loves me just as much. So where's the problem?
I had this friend (male) since 2 years ago, and we are/were really good friends. I introduced him to her, he liked her too, and he implied that he wanted to date her. She came to me for advice to say no to him.
He (allegedly) stopped liking her. *fast forward to this wednesday*
Nearly every day for the past few months, they would stay after school together, just hanging out, and I would usually go home. They would also see each other before school and at events outside of it as well, once in a while.
So on Weds, she is about to tell me something when, in a really nice, sweet voice, she calls me by his name by accident. Of course I'm upset, and I get upset (not yelling and stuff, just noticably sad/depressed-looking) They both notice, and I say (the next day) that they had been spending a lot of time together, and if I wasn't good enough for her she should leave me already, because I want her to be happy. I don't care about me as much.
She gets kind of defensive/reassuring to me, saying it was nothing more than a friendship, and she only loved me, not him too. So we would both make an effort to make sure it didn't happen again.
So yesterday, she was no different at all to him or me, and she starts telling me the (in her opinion) hilarious things he said the previous day, and all about him. Basically, she didn't change at all.
So my question(s) is/are;
Is she telling the whole truth? and if no,
Should I break up? I really really really don't want to, but I might have no choice.
Thank you so much.