Am i feeling love, lust, or infactutation??

Gingerlover2014 · 07-16-2012, 03:29 PM

Ive known him for about 2 months now. And we have a lot in common and have made VERY simmilar mistakes and weve kinda accepted the fact that neither one of us is perfect and i guess we are slowing growing into one another (idk why but i dont think anything he can do can stop my "love" for him)but i think the fact he wont tell me his age is confusing (because i know more deeper stuff than that )as if he is scared to. And it bothers the crap out of me. Because im younger than him but where im from its legal but he just wont? Why wont he tell me? Is that a bad sign? And what am i feeling?

Hipster · 07-16-2012, 03:34 PM

It sounds like infatuation, to be honest.

Can you tell exactly why you "love" him?

Gingerlover2014 · 07-16-2012, 03:44 PM

Well... Hes knows some really personal stuff that my parents dont even know. And hes very accepting of that. Which is really new for me because some of my exs have taken advantage of me because i told them or they were freaked out a lil.

Hipster · 07-16-2012, 03:46 PM

That right there, tells me it isn't love. It's affection or infatuation. You basically have something more than a crush, that's growing.

Gingerlover2014 · 07-16-2012, 03:55 PM

so what your saying is a start of possible relationship?

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Wait... Im lost??

Hipster · 07-16-2012, 03:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Gingerlover2014

so what your saying is a start of possible relationship?

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Wait... Im lost??

Nope, not what I said.
I'm saying that you're not in love, or that you love him. I never said that it's a start of a relationship, just that your own feelings for him are growing slowly.

hannah63 · 07-16-2012, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Gingerlover2014

Ive known him for about 2 months now. And we have a lot in common and have made VERY simmilar mistakes and weve kinda accepted the fact that neither one of us is perfect and i guess we are slowing growing into one another

This indicated to me that you've both come from bad past relationships and you're clutching to each other for some sort of comfort and security (hence why you're so bothered by him not telling you his age). I think it's infatuation. Can you see yourself growing any deeper feelings for him?

Gingerlover2014 · 07-16-2012, 04:10 PM

Yea but its not like bad relationships its like parental issues and hes kinda helping me with that and something else because him and his ma are cool now. Hes a guy id actually consider thinking bout him being part of my future.