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Old 08-15-2012, 08:43 PM   #16
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Well I think you should be honest with how you ask her. Be cool, but at the same time serious (Not to serious). Just tel her if she wants to ever hang out outside of skool. (Movies, eating out, etc). Thats all you can really do. I think the faster you do it, the better
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Old 08-16-2012, 06:28 PM   #17
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Okay firstly, I agree with meg.loomis - as a girl, if a guy in the year below who I'd never spoken to asked me out, I wouldn't even consider saying yes.

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What do you think is going to happen?
You think that you are going to walk up to her having never said anything to her, and say "Hey, you don't know me but I have been watching you for a while now and I really like you. Do you want to go out on a date with me?"
I'm sure that will work out great for you and she won't think you a creep at all.
Also if you just walk up to her and say that^ it IS creepy, I mean come on, "I've been watching you for a while" - stalker alert.

You've got yourself in a bit of a fix with this girl in that your chances are very low at this point, especially because the 'mutual friend' already told her you like her.

If there was anyway to salvage your chances, it would only be to get to know her as a friend first - stop staring at her as she walks past etc.

In my opinion, it's probably time to move on - put yourself out there and start dating other girls who you actually have a chance with.

However I can see that you probably will not give up on this girl, so by all means just don't walk up to her and ask her out.
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Hey guys so I have some big update! Please read my first post or you won't understand this part!

So as you know, I kinda randomly asked her out through our mutual friend on accident kinda thing, and she was really surprised and rejected me. Well today she was online on FB, like first time I've seen her online, so I decided I want to talk to her. But I didn't know how to break the ice, as I have no idea what she thinks of me. Has she forgotten over me? Does she think of me as a creepy guy who asked her out without ever talking to her (accident btw)? Anyway I decided the best way was to apologize to her, and see how she reacts to it. This is what I said:
Hey, way earlier this year, I like randomly had a crush on you. And then I didn't really know you so I kinda asked (mutual friend) for help who then kinda asked you out on my behalf and it got really weird and shit. I'm really sorry for all that and yeah I know its been ages but I never really had the balls to tell you but I kinda feel like I owe you an apology for the immature shit i did.

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oh dont worry about it haha i didnt really know much about what was going on... twas slightly strange but algoods

I then said:
yeah it kinda was lol
I thought u were really cute and knew u were friends with (mutual friend)
and then (mutual friend) said a bunch of nice things about u
i didnt really plan nor ask for the whole asking out thing
and i assumed you thought it was pretty fucking weird

She then replied:
haha well thank you. Yeah dont worry about it, everyone gets crushes. its allgood

I wanted to keep talking to her, but it might seem weird so I just stopped there. She seems like a good person, and wasn't hurt by the whole thing at all, so I'm thinking of giving it a shot with her. What do you think? When I ask my friends, they're relatively 50/50 on it. Some say I should maybe try after some time (a week to a month or so) while others said I should now move on and be happy that she gave me a chance to give this whole thing a closure.

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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Maybe you should just send her a message on Facebook? I did that to a girl I liked, I liked a 'like and I'll write' status and it just went from there, that was three weeks ago and now, we both know that we like each other and we both achknowledge that we would eventually go out with each other and I wouldnt call myself attractive either, id say, like you, below average. If you just talk to her, you could see how it goes?
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Old 08-23-2012, 03:52 PM   #20
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Couple odd posts there eh? But in all seriousness i got a couple tips for ya with this situation. ALthough firstly good work on talking to her about the whole asking her out through a mutual friend thing, good move. However first tip, she thinks you like her so dont talk to her every day when you start tryin to talk to her on fb, and avoid the whole "so you do you like?" conversations. I say that because if you wanna go anywhere with her, i'd personally start on fb and SLOWLY work into talking to her a couple times a week but leave it at that (everyday will come off as seriously desperate and she'll start avoiding if she gets the wrong impression). So just take it slow and try building a friendship with her, give this a couple months minimum k? she already sounds like the kinda girl who would try to avoid you because she wouldn't want to hurt you so take it slow and just be friendly, dont try flirting or anything unless she starts it (however if she does start flirting, dont flirt back at first, who could end up like the long list of people who mistook kindness for flirting, avoid that if ya can). All in all if ya want to go somewhere with her, start with a good friendship and try to find a way to hang out with her in a group situation to get to know her and her friends (her friends will pretty much decide if you will ever get the chance to go out with her unless she falls head over heels for ya. Friends hold influence, so be yourself, but the best side of yourself if that makes sense. Wearing a mask wont help though, just some forwarning). From their just be yourself and take it as it comes. If you get that far i'd give you a decent shot at goin somewhere with her, however dont be someone you're not. It never ends well and by the sounds of things she'd know if you were being someone you weren't to impress her and chances are that'd come off pretty badly
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

@ Lewylln-Thanks for your tips! Problem is she is barely ever on FB, I've seen her online like twice in the past month maybe? And I agree with most of it, but problem is I can't really get into the whole group situation as we're in different year groups etc. The main problem I'm finding it, how will I have my first convo with her? Like how will I start it off? I have the usual "hey, what's up?" thing might not work here.
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man hope all goes well, good luck
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Just be honest with her, just ask her out.
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Just go for it
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

So how do you guys think I should approach it? She's barely ever on facebook and I don't have her number.

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I mean I'm thinking either sending her a FB message (like not chat) or try meet her at school. But I don't really no what to say. I mean consdering she kinda just let me off the hook, and I can't really ask her out cause I don't know her well.
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Hey guys need help! How should I approach her and what should I say?
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

well,you have to come closer to each other first.let her know more about you.then,you can ask her out yourself.you have to talk together first,go out sometime and become close friends.for me,i'm a girl,and i hate when someone asks me out through a friend of mine.be brave and bold and ask her yourself.if she doesn't agree then move on,there is plenty of fish in the water.....
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

Ok what do you think about this? Planning to tell her IRL. I think it needs improvement a bit. I really want to send a signal that I care for her without coming across as being some creep.

Me: Hey (her name)
Her: Hey
Me: Ok I need to tell you something. For the past 8 months, I've had a crush on you. I know we don't know each other and you must think its weird but, I just can't stop liking you. Your undoubtedly really cute and you seem like an awesome person. I want to get to know you better, but I also want you to know I'm looking to being more then friends. So if you're interested as well, I think we should start slow and get to know each other kinda thing.
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Re: Need Help with asking out a girl!

well,yeah..that's great!
try it,but make sure you start slow.cause you don't know her pretty much....
WISH IT GOES WELL....
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