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[Science818]

hello, i joined this forum for the soul purpose of asking this question.
me and this girl have been friends for the past 8 years, and i really like her, and i know she likes me. the problem is, i don't know for sure, whether or not we're a couple.
i never actually asked her out, and neither of us have ever said anything to clearly indicate whether or not we're a couple.
how can i figure this out without putting our friendship/relationship in danger.
i would really appreciate any help

thanks,
Mike

[Hipster]

If you're a couple, you don't have a friendship/relationship in danger. Simple as that.
If you're a couple, then don't ask, feel. Do you hold hands, hug? Anything close like that? What would happen if you did? Would she pull away or reserve herself?

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[Science818]

the problem is that i really don't know if we are a couple or not.

[Hipster]

If you don't know then you probably aren't.

[Science818]

i'm not sure that's the case. i don't think its that simple. things between me and her are never that simple. in fact, i just remembered something: i am writing a book, and one of the characters is based off of her, and i introduced her character as just a friend, which changes later in the book. a few months ago, she read the beginning and seemed confused by the fact that her character was "just a friend". this only adds to my confusion.

[YO_VANILLA]

Like Hipster said if you have to ask then no, you aren't a couple

[(8)jaseyrae<3]

This is hard without knowing more about the situation. Erm, if you don't know if you're a couple or not but you know she likes you back, make a move on her? If she kisses you back, well, that answers your question.